So my girlfriend has tons of orbiters, and for a good while she has done a good job ignoring them to be with me. However, as our relationship advances, she is more and more likely to hang out with her orbiter "friends".

And it bothers me less than it used to. To be honest, our relationship is nice and I get my needs met, but even if she cheated on me, I have a lot of plans for my single life to be too scared of breaking up.

But it still frustrates me that don't have any options, I don't have an idea of where to meet these women, just to be "friendly".

So what would you suggest? There are some women at my gym, that's the most I see. I'm planning to study Japanese (I like the language). Maybe get back to music? Get a band? I'm 27, I don't have much free time anymore, and have a lot of goals.