Where would YOU start? What would YOUR plan be?

rep12 · 2016-04-30T19:20:42+00:00

Your problems lie in four categories:

Discipline
Fitness
Finance
Low value

Deal with fitness first. Begin with stronglifts 5x5. Incorporate cardio twice a week - hard running/skipping/swimming. Food is fuel, you need to start eating right to shed fat and build muscle.

As you start to follow a gym routine and nutrition plan, you'll be well on your way to developing good discipline. Self motivation is a learned skill, for you it will start in the gym and the kitchen. To develop further discipline set measurable goals and achieve them. Rinse and repeat.

Finance next. You're young, find a career. Choose an industry you like, find out how to get into it. You're educated enough to use a computer, your english is fine & you have familial support. I see no reason you couldn't complete an accounting qualification for example. Don't spend money on bullshit, look into frugal living. There are multiple subreddits and online resources for saving money.

By the time you've dealt with the former problems your social value will have begun increasing. Anxiety is fixed with confidence gained in the gym and in the workplace. Depression is fixed with good nutrition, exercise and socialising. You can find countless resources on game on the main sub, these should be your port of call when it comes to improving your social life. Personally I'm an advocate of meeting people through hobbies.

Nobody remains a loser after 12 months of self dedication.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-04-30T22:35:12+00:00

Start lifting, plan to fuck a hooker.

Thewelshpill · 2016-04-30T19:49:55+00:00

Hey man, glad to hear you want to make some positive changes in your life!

What kind of things are you interested in? I think it's important to spend invest your time wisely, it makes a big difference to your life.

Apexk9 · 2016-04-30T21:11:11+00:00

Eat better excersise and start finding hobbies. Step 1

play_time_is_over · 2016-05-01T15:30:18+00:00

I would join a good martial arts dojo ASAP and train 5-12 hours a week.

id quit video games, meme reddit and porn immediately.

Id either go to college or start hustling on weekends.

I would monk mode for the first 3 months and lose the fat before even thinking of talking to a women.

Id re-assess at the 3 month mark.

Title	Where would YOU start? What would YOUR plan be?
Author	Throwmeapill7
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	April 30, 2016 6:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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