why avoid relationships until 30?

huggyblossom · 2019-05-01T10:25:32+00:00

The stigma is because most of the guys here are 20-25 and have zero clues how to handle a LTR, no matter al the present information and advices.

TRP is an excellent toolbox if used right, if you only read and don't reflect in your actions the read part it's useless. After 1 year RP I still see the same questions from '''RP swallowed guys'' that have 0 idea how to proceed with plain shit test and first relationship questions like what are we, what are we doing now, are you seeing other women.

CainPrice · 2019-05-01T10:46:33+00:00

Are you saying that you don't want any more casual sex, after years and years of hooking up with women, and now you want a relationship with the right woman after spending a long time experiencing first hand what women are like?

Or are you an ugly or socially awkward guy who's never been the casual sex guy before and is pretending that he's making the decision to only pursue relationships when, in fact, women made that decision for him by passing him over for casual sex?

If you've never been the casual sex guy, you don't know or understand women. You need to be that guy for a few years first an experience first hand what women are like before you decide to commit to a woman.

plumo123 · 2019-05-01T10:11:44+00:00

TRP is a toolbox, you pick and choose your tools and then do what you want with them. Anything else is somebody's opinion

LordFa9 · 2019-05-01T16:04:11+00:00

My personal story abridged: I was the guy you described

Incel and blue pilled till i was like 30. Learnt Alpha guy and TRP stuff in half a year of intensive study, dived headfirst into the dating landscape, picked up a bunch of plates, spun them around for half a year, settled on a starter GF/LTR, broken up after 7 mths as of last Saturday

Would I want to be the casual sex Chad? Sure I would, just to polish my game and get more variety and most importantly THE EXPERIENCE THAT ONLY COMES FROM HAVING SEEN TONS OF SHIT BROUGHT ABOUT BY BEING WITH DIFFERENT WOMEN.

But TBH its just me, but I find plate spinning kinda tiring on the body and mind so even though I want to do Rollo's rockstar 20s I dont think I can

Someone else might take up the challenge but its too late for me

Take from this what you will

Aptote · 2019-05-01T18:35:20+00:00

what is wrong with getting into relationships?

nothing, ltr is rp endgame,

gaming and spinning plates is a huge time/effort sink, and ultimately unfulfilling

theres a pretty clear stigma against relationships here.

only amongst rp script kiddies, that comprise the bulk of this sub

Title	why avoid relationships until 30?
Author	reddit309
Upvotes	2
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Date	May 1, 2019 9:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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