Ok so I’m at a point where I got my shit together. Nice job. Nice apt. Nice car. I indulge in my hobbies. I dress well. I got my own style, personality. I’m authentic. I make time to read so I’m knowledgeable about a shit ton of things. I can thread a conversation like the loom of fate from Wanted. I make girls laugh. I calibrate. I make friends with the group of people. But I’m just not getting laid. I’m fairly new to all this so there’s a lot of naïveté at play here but still...I feel like I should have gotten laid by now. I’m exclusively chatting up 8s, 9s, and 10s and I haven’t gotten laid in a year. Something isn’t quite working.

I’m on nofap and there’s an urge for me to mate. I feel like this a perfect time to work on one of my weaknesses– making things sexual.

I’m not gonna lie. Not fapping as made me laser focused on busting a nut but I gotta make some changes if I wanna do that.

What are a few skills I need to make sure are ironed out in order to close consistently?