Guys, I have a problem of not being able to dump my plates smoothly. I used to be good and ruthless about leaving them. But I’m growing older now and have suddenly become sensitive to feelings like oh I don’t want her to be sad and I prolong a situationship longer than it needs to be. There’s a certain plate that slipped into an LTR for a year now, I was still fucking around, but I always found myself back with her again - she is hot but can be very shitty and demanding. Lately she found out about another model I’m banging she got jealous and wants to leave and I’m feeling SAD. Absolutely ridiculous. Same pattern is occurring with other plates. When it is time to cut them off I just can’t. They see I don’t care about them anymore and ask if we should end it but then I go “oh baby girl... we are alright”.

What’s wrong with me?