Why did I fail?

Joeboard · 2019-02-23T10:53:31+00:00

Girls care so much about what people think of them. They don't want you to think they are a whore or a slut, so they use these defenses to make themselves feel better. Ill usually try twice, if I get denied the second time ill stop. She probably felt some tension from you when she denied you.. that's what that last part of the text means.

If this was like a first date, I wouldnt worry. Wait a few days, message her to meet up again.

If youve been dating / talking to her for a bit and still this, its time to next.

rpsheepdog · 2019-02-23T11:44:04+00:00

I have two takes;

1-you just weren't the lothario you thought you were, interesting enough to warrant a posible second date, but not enough to get that poosy dripping

2- There are other factors at play that can influence her decisions if #1 isn't tight enough, possible period coming, maybe her room looks like shit, she lives with her roommates/boyfriend, she didn't shave her pussy, parents coming in the morning- the problem with these excuses is sometimes they are actual excuses, but most of the time they are just fabricated. Almost all can be avoided by working on #1

zxcvb7809 · 2019-02-23T12:51:56+00:00

Reengage at a later date if it happens again I think she is using you for attention.

RedSkeller · 2019-02-23T13:28:10+00:00

Likely you weren't as slick at you thought. Diffusing ASD isn't a 100% conversion ration but I'd say mine is easily 80 - 90%. So keep practicing. Usually if I drink too much I lose control - go figure. She texted you so it shows interest. Play it off like no big deal, as it's better to over escalate than to under escalate. Tell her "I've had worse and we should do it again this week". If she replies, go straight to logistics and take it easy.

Battletoad101 · 2019-02-25T15:48:38+00:00

More alcohol

The_Black_Rooster · 2019-03-23T01:23:21+00:00

Title	Why did I fail?
Author	L0neWolfAlpha
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	February 23, 2019 10:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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