I am in love with all of my "plates" I suppress the expression around them of course, but I am in love with all of them. It's like I could marry any of them, but I won't. Why are we men cursed with this innate desire to marry ASAP? I know I am, but I am delaying this innate desire to LTR and settle down, but I know that it's a fucking lie.... I'm not sure what it is, I am so damn upset about this. Can anyone tell me what this is?