Why do men turn beta in LTR's?

SkimSTi · 2017-05-08T23:12:39+00:00

well.... depends..... the ones that go FULL beta, are whipped.

but, for any LTR to be successful, you cant be full rambo RP. otherwise, she will not get the comfort she needs and she will leave you. the appropriate answer is to be 2/3rds RP. with a side of beta. if you want a happy woman...

of course, the hardcore rambo RP'ers in here who just ONS and dont get exclusive, are going to disagree.. but that is the truth to maintaining an LTR. so i guess it depends on what you want. the key is to not go overboard on the beta/comfort.

so, to answer your question directly. yes, some guys dont have options and get whipped into it out of fear of losing the girl.. they think satisfying their every womans needs and being a 'yes man' will keep them happy. the truth is, they are wrong.

others throw in a little beta to keep their women happy while keeping control of their relationship. that is how you have greater chances at a successful relationship.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-05-09T00:01:19+00:00

Lack of Abundance Mentality, and they want to keep the Pussy Train running so they start doing the "yes honey!" tap dance because they think that shit will work.

Fuck Disney, got it?

Docbear64 · 2017-05-09T00:35:01+00:00

The power dynamic shifting . Women like locking down attractive men so a man that a woman wants being just out of reach of her makes her the less powerful one during the dating phase.

When men commit exclusivity to a woman and a relationship the structure flips. She becomes his sole provider of both sex and typically emotional stimulation . If you're into the chick this starts off as a good deal but over time women start to exert control over said exclusivity and more or less become sexual and emotional terrorist. Where she used to do things to take care of and engage your interest she now has no need because she owns your dick and the dude begins to strive to make her happy because her value in his life has more or less been artificially increased.

By getting in a relationship you lock yourself to one pussy versus before a relationship when her pussy is just one of many.

intradasting350 · 2017-05-09T00:16:44+00:00

because in an LTR you can't be full alpha the whole time. From time to time you need to throw her a bone and act all romantic and soft and cute. It's a balance.

People who disagree with that have never been in an LTR. Being alpha the whole time is just unsustainable. Being alpha the whole time is a great way to get the girl to cheat on you or break up with in 3 months

mallardcove · 2017-05-09T00:34:59+00:00

When one woman represents 100% of your supply and access to pussy, you begin to do things in order to maintain that access.

Title	Why do men turn beta in LTR's?
Author	pineappleeverything
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Comments	5
Date	May 8, 2017 11:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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