Why do women do this?

Fictitiousfallacy · 2017-01-13T19:25:38+00:00

Women are fine with sharing the top 10% of males. If they get cheated on with a male that they don't consider to be in the top 10% or if the woman believe she can land a male with a higher SMV, they will leave them.

Case and point, nearly any sports figure or rich male who has cheated on their spouse and the spouse didn't leave them (Kobe Bryant).

What about men? We don't like sharing women. We want our woman to be ours and only ours. That's why you see rich men leaving their equally as rich wives or partners (in general).

Willow-girl · 2017-01-14T05:24:10+00:00

Women value loyalty; it's right at the top of the list. Let me break it down for you. Half the fun of having a high-quality man is being able to show him off to your girlfriends and the world at large. It bolsters a woman's status to be able to say, "Look what I caught!" But if the man doesn't act like he's "caught" -- if he's going around cheating, or even just openly flirting with other women -- he becomes an embarrassment. He spoils all of her fun.

On MRP, they will tell you that "dread" is the secret to getting more sex, but be very careful of using this tactic on a woman who isn't financially dependent on you. A free, independent woman, sensing disloyalty, will generally 'next' you. A woman who is dependent on a man to be her meal ticket doesn't have that luxury and may even be compelled to put out, or otherwise fake attraction to you, if she senses you're straying. You gotta know where you stand, and play your cards accordingly.

deadwoodcylon · 2017-01-13T20:07:28+00:00

She doesn't actually want her bf / husband to fuck other women, she just likes the idea of other women wanting what she has. She doesn't want her toy to go play with the other girls in the playground that want to play with it. It's her toy.

omega_dawg93 · 2017-01-13T19:59:12+00:00

$$$ and a bunch of nice shit, esp cars & a nice crib... and they'll stick around.

Fictitiousfallacy · 2017-01-13T20:27:33+00:00

I disagree that your SMV is determined by the SMV of the women you pull. Now a days it's very common for men to hook up with SMV's lower than theirs because that seems to be the norm for some reason. That is to say, it appears that women are almost always with men who have a higher SMV than them.

Would you be more inclined to agree with my 10% idea if I changed it to "the top 10%" of men that they realistically have access to? Not top 10% of men in general.

sonder_one · 2017-01-15T05:20:39+00:00

They don't always do that, and when they do, they have other options.

oldredder · 2017-01-16T13:28:14+00:00

Often they do not. I see way more women putting up with the cheating than dumping. Or... finding the girl and maybe slice her up a teeny tiny bit.

Mostly when the woman leaves it's because SHE is cheating, even if she says the guy was cheating, even if it's true, she was cheating too.

NYEThrowaway_User_ · 2017-01-13T19:18:00+00:00

Lots of times they stick with their husbands and boyfriends when they cheat.

roseillus · 2017-01-13T19:17:50+00:00

He wasn't high value enough.

Title	Why do women do this?
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Date	January 13, 2017 7:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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