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Why do women keep on wanting my commitment before I even know them?

Ktigers
September 21, 2015
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Title Why do women keep on wanting my commitment before I even know them?
Author

Ktigers
Upvotes 6
Comments 20
Date September 21, 2015 11:23 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3lsjs1/why_do_women_keep_on_wanting_my_commitment_before/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/why-do-women-keep-on-wanting-my-commitment-before.154125
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Comments

[–]SarsaparillaCorona6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gonna have to elaborate. But it's because of the whole 'gatekeeper' philosophy, one of you has to open your gates under the assumption the other will follow, but as both genders know, it doesn't happen that way all the time.

[–]wont_tell_i_refuse2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You give off subtle beta tells.

Or you're a walking piggy bank, I really have no idea because you asked an extremely broad question with no additional information for us.

[–]Ktigers[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm poor and at college (18)

[–]wont_tell_i_refuse0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're just starting their CC ride and looking for the one alternative: meeting a guy who won't fuck them over early.

You're lucky to be coming of age in the post-feminist era.

[–]laere2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are thirsty men, and then there are thirsty women (in the commitment sense).

Gotta land that BB.

[–]1AmlanceJockey2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm gonna guess, you are a nice guy. Not saying you are a pussy. Just that you generally treat people well and dont have any face tats. You are slightly above average looking and chicks generally do not decide they want to fuck you without even talking to you. You have a nice car. Either a sports or luxury car or maybe a late model loaded sedan. Well spoken. Not super well dressed , you dress like someone with a job. You work in a well regarded profession. You are aged between 30 -40, women who are near your age are coming up on the wall fast. N-count of 8. 4 of which were in the past five years. Your parents are still together. No pets. One geeky hobby. One manly hobby. You are man that appreciates egyption cotton sheets.

[–]caucasianinasia3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Try being a decent looking, in shape, rich (in a relative sense) white male living in a small Vietnamese village. They're talking about marriage in the first few conversations and getting mad that I'm not telling them that I am dying to marry them as soon as possible. Crazy.

[–]bonekeeper 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Do they love you long time?

[–]solbrothers1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

And dont forget to check for a set of balls before proceeding

[–]bonekeeper 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

And make sure you're fucking the ones with a cough

[–]caucasianinasia0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm not in Thailand. Vietnam is actually very conservative. I only saw one ladyboy before and ironically, it was in a Thai restaurant in Saigon.

[–]bonekeeper 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think you missed the joke about Vietnam

[–]caucasianinasia0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I totally got it. I showed that to my girlfriend and she will say it. Her English is really good so she sometimes forgets to say it in broken English. But it's funny as hell when she does. She'll even say it when we're fucking.

[–]bonekeeper 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha that's nice!

[–]Hecticchow 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Because they see you as the provider type and want to find that beta bux husband before they inevitably hit their wall.

[–]cdtCPTret1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No, man... Women settle for BB -after- rejection from AF. Just because she wants commitment doesn't make you BB. it only does If she refuses sex after she knows she won't get it. Basic TRP. They don't automatically think "time to settle down, where are those virgin accountants? They want Chad. Chad says no. They get older and lonelier. More Chads say no. Virgin accountant say "u doesn't she see me?" She sees the light! Tada.

[–]BaconEggsAndSleaze 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Girls approach commitment differently from AF to a BB.

AF commitment seeking is much more covert.

[–]cdtCPTret0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well agreed that's true by the definitions. For a BB she just has to stop saying no.

[–]griefpickle 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends: are you talking about commitment to plans established? Or are we talking about commitment to relationship?

In the first situation: we don't like our time wasted if you're going to flake out on a plan after setting one up. I just cut loose some retard that would do precisely this.

In the second situation: because they are giving you a massive red flag of craziness and doing you a favour. Stop flocking to crazy.

[–]Kenny_Twenty-3 points-2 points-1 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who cares why. Pretend to commit.

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