I'd love for this post to get derailed into some intellectual region like behavior modification or something along those lines. Really I've just been annoyed lately at seeing posts in r/seduction by dudes asking for advice about their love/sex lives and then proceed to just complain about the situation after having been given some really solid advice. What's the point in asking for suggestions when a self-defeating attitude sabatoges your prospects regardless of how much explicit instrction you're given? I know it's up to people to decide what they should/shouldn't do, but I also think that one should evaluate their attitude towards constructive criticism and their willingness to actually follow through part and parcel with seeking guidance.TLDR; Good advice is useless if the recipient has a shitty attitude prior to getting it.