Why does familiarity kill attraction?

spider_1337 · 2019-07-25T22:22:18+00:00

Scarcity creates value, abundance lowers it. Its why betas shoot themselves in the foot by giving too much attention/time/resources. Makes them come off as low value

AbaGanov · 2019-07-25T22:34:18+00:00

because mystery is an attractive quality.

TibetanWisdom · 2019-07-25T22:50:56+00:00

If a girl finds you attractive and doesn't know you at all, she'll likely build a story in her head about how mysterious and ellusive you are. But as soon as she thinks she has you "figured out" (even if she doesn't, which is usually the case), the excitement vanishes.

BuzzLightGear321 · 2019-07-25T22:35:27+00:00

If you are a high SMV with a bunch of women, men, and awesome things competing for your time, then you won't have enough time to build familiarity with one girl.

bleudogs · 2019-07-26T10:42:57+00:00

it lowers their feelsss and makes you b o r i n g..

dukes1998 · 2019-07-26T14:22:11+00:00

Only if you don’t hold frame and show other signs of neediness or being low value.

umizumiz · 2019-07-26T14:45:17+00:00

Capitalism.

If you have a bunch of something, it's low value(generally).

If you have little of something, it's high value(generally).

whosaccisthis94 · 2019-07-26T04:33:51+00:00

Have you noticed the more you become a frequent visitor at a place. It just seems like the girls are a little less chatty with you versus when you first started to visit.

These girls are working and are just trying to make sales so they can have more shifts. Since they know you already like the place they don't need to put in effort to pull you back in anymore.

Title	Why does familiarity kill attraction?
Author	RuleTheOne
Upvotes	28
Comments	20
Date	July 25, 2019 10:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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