Why does this always happen to me?

Quaternionz · 2018-09-07T02:22:17+00:00

Yeah man, get used to feeling sick when that happens. Get used to it super good, it'll happen a lot.

Attractive women have options. I've been on dates with HB9's where they spent huge hunks of time bitching about their loser beta orbiters while they managed their 37 different text message streams on their phones. From her perspective you were just another random guy. She'll bail on you and not care, because if you get offended and move on there will be 4 more new randos that pop up just on Monday.

Improve yourself and play the numbers. Get built, get rich, develop your social skills. Be that one guy in 1,000 who really stands out to her. And in the meantime play the numbers. Game girls like crazy. 1 in 50 will bite, just keep trying. Don't get hung up on one defeat, you should be experiencing so many failures daily that you don't have the time no notice them anymore.

sonnydanger · 2018-09-07T15:39:14+00:00

It happens man, its just part of the game, and it wont be the last time. Get used to the feeling, cause afterwards youll realize shes the one thats going to miss out and she wasnt worth your time anyway. Keep on grinding.

morescoobysnacks · 2018-09-07T11:10:44+00:00

Set a date in person or get the girl to promise to txt you back. That will increase your close rate tremendously if you actually start running consistent game. I turn girls down on numbers all the time because they refuse to do one of those two. Just a complete waste of my time. Not even taking my phone out. I legit just walk off. Another 50 thots down the street.

Also the time spent in set doesn't matter at all. There's virtually no difference between 2 minutes or 10 minutes during the daytime. These people talking about rapport need to read a book.

Eperty123 · 2018-09-07T02:04:59+00:00

Depends on the interaction. How long do you talk to girls? Don't expect them to meet up with you if you only have been talking for 5 min. Aim for atleast 20 min so she can trust you more.

beachbbqlover · 2018-09-07T03:30:38+00:00

Not worth diagnosing from one failure. Fail 10x as often. Then consider why.

Exodus230 · 2018-09-07T10:42:46+00:00

She had other options or she isn't into you and you got the wrong impression, not to worry, onto the next.

meme_poacher · 2018-09-07T14:46:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/9dthgp/a_simple_reminder_2/?utm_source=reddit-android

redpharma7789 · 2018-09-07T02:25:58+00:00

You need to build more rapport when it comes to texting. A good rule of thumb is to pull the trigger between 3-10 messages. I don’t know if you sent anything before, so I’m gonna guess you asked straight up?

For example, Bumble girl would open me up. Go at it a bit back and forth with the bullshit in my bio.

If she is investing in the conversation, such as asking questions or giving lengthy responses, I’ll pull the number trigger. And setup a date.

Title	Why does this always happen to me?
Author	NoSpeakCanadiano
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	September 7, 2018 1:58 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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