Why does TRP have an issue with single moms?

michael1962-01 · 2021-05-03T18:41:33+00:00

Who with a sane mind would dedicate his resources to another mans offspring?

You get all responsibility, no authority at all, and the child will never accept you.

The best you can get is #3 in the priority (#4 if a dog is involved and #5 if the baby daddy is still in the picture).

That is nothing a REAL man would do.

Alittihad01 · 2021-05-03T19:17:53+00:00

because they have left over of other men in their life , no high value man wants them.

because they are slutty as fuck

because their body count is too high ,

because they have had dicks like lollipop and now they wanna settle down with a pussy who acts like nothing happened to her!

because they are way less fun , way less pretty.

jjj2576 · 2021-05-03T19:18:14+00:00

Why hasn’t OP read the Sidebar?

thexrayluver · 2021-05-03T19:43:16+00:00

for short terms flings i see no issue, a few months messing around max. but trying to have a serious relationship (LTR) with single moms isn't the smartest idea. if you have no problem raising and spending your time and resources on another mans kid then go for it. but there are sooo many girls out there without kids you could be gaming. also single moms usually have higher standards for men without actually bringing much to the table, except another dudes kid

viphawaii · 2021-05-05T23:14:15+00:00

Because a lot of men here have archaic views on single mom and women in general. In my neck of the woods, Silicon Valley Bay Area, single moms are usually very well off (they screwed their wealthy ex husband in the divorce, remember?) and they have great career.

The idea that she needs any financial support from Her boyfriend is like 50s mentality. The single mom I LTR NEVER ASKED A DIME for any of her child’s expenses. They are highly independent and always offer to pay 1/2 for vacations and treat sometimes for dinner and drinks.

yeah there are single welfare moms struggling financially and look for resources. You know what you do? Don’t date them!

More for me I guess. I enjoy dating financially independent women and I don’t care if she has a child or not.

Also they do put their kids first. So what? Sometimes I want to have my own time alone too. I enjoy having a break from relationship doing my own hobbies while they take care of their kids every other weekend.

Tractor_Sunpower · 2021-05-03T18:58:57+00:00

TRP doesn't have issue with sm just with people not bothered to read sidebar

Musicgoon · 2021-05-03T23:18:46+00:00

Single moms are only plates. They are pretty fucking damaged by the time you get to them. And usually they use their kid as a tool for manipulation.

One ex I had was a vicious alcoholic. She would get drunk and mean. So I would leave when she would get like that. Every time I would go she would say ,"Oh so you're just going to walk out in my son Musicgoon? He thinks of you like a father". To which I would reply ,"I would hope he would walk out on a girlfriend that's a drunk and an asshole. I'm teaching him that you should expect your partner to act right".

Plate only bro. Not LTR.

319Skew · 2021-05-03T19:16:48+00:00

Love single moms. Amazing plates.

LTR not so much.

Her priority is:

Herself

Her kid

You

You're also restricted with your time, she's older than someone who doesn't have kids, you may have to deal with her ex, the emotional investment that occurs, etc.

This is coming from a single father. It's an undetstable deal breaker for most people.

Edit : Fomat

amwfhunter · 2021-05-04T07:37:43+00:00

Don't wanna raise another man's kid.

Women will always put their kid first. So if you're gonna be with a woman with kids..make sure the kid is actually yours. At least your kid will be taken care of (this statement is loaded.)

Single moms are fine if u want to fuck or fling them.. plates. May be even life long fuck friends but never commit. This is the way.

RIchardjCranium · 2021-05-06T00:15:27+00:00

Not your job to mop up someone else’s mess.

Title	Why does TRP have an issue with single moms?
Author	GraciousWarrior9
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	May 3, 2021 6:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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