Will I be permanently affected by not getting women in my early years?

monsieurhire2 · 2019-03-18T00:59:00+00:00

No, not permanently. Eventually you will die, and all your problems will be gone.

[deleted] · 2019-03-17T22:57:14+00:00

It will definitely make you feel like you wasted your youth.

HumptyDumptyFellHard · 2019-03-17T23:00:38+00:00

You’re early 20s are where you are at your prime. This should be the time where you should be having fun, meeting new women, etc. Once you get older, I am sure you’ll regret not banging a good amount of bitches in your 20s

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-03-17T22:59:05+00:00

No. Didn't lose my vcard until I was 20 and now I'm AAF. It builds character, with enough self-analysis you'll figure out where you need to improve.

Cazken · 2019-03-17T23:08:36+00:00

You’re doing it for yourself. You want chicks for yourself. Fuck your ears, don’t be a little pussy. All you need is ok clothes, ok skin, ok physique, ok hair. Now it’s time to start doing shit instead of waiting.

SimplyFishOil · 2019-03-18T00:01:54+00:00

I believe that every guy should start early because that way they learn proper communication skills with women, and later in life when you eventually settle with a woman you have the means to filter out the women you don't like and find the one you really like inside and out.

What you're doing is holding off on the assumption that you'll find someone later in life. But when will you start searching? Is there a day you have set that you'll start looking for a woman?

TrolsMan2 · 2019-03-18T01:22:50+00:00

" , other than that I havent had much success with women which I attribute to ears that are too big. I'm waiting to graduate college to be able to afford the surgery. "

Read the sidebar. Stop making excuses. Yeah, women only don't sleep with you because of your ears. And they don't sleep with your friend because of his nose. And with your other friend because of his lack of hair. (irony just in case)

WindIsMyMusic · 2019-03-18T01:42:19+00:00

Too big ears? Well I only got one. First time somebody would want sex with me was at the age of 19 but I caught a limp dick. Stayed a virgin till 21, always scared it'll happen again.

It does not make my life miserable tho, that's all I got to say. Don't worry dude

0io- · 2019-03-18T01:59:19+00:00

You can overcome it. Friend of mine was total fat beta loser virgin until he was like 26? Then he had a little luck with a drunk girl at Mardi Gras, then he discovered PUA and got pretty good at game, then he lost a ton of weight and started working out all the time. Worked on his personality a lot, too. Now he slays on Tinder like it's nobody's business. If you knew him from before, you wouldn't even think it was possible.

PolesWithGoals · 2019-03-18T04:24:32+00:00

I’m a 21 year old guy in college and I still haven’t lost my v card. That being said, you’ll be fine

StopGaming1234 · 2019-03-18T12:27:31+00:00

I started when I was almost 22 and had a dozen of girls after that.

Title	Will I be permanently affected by not getting women in my early years?
Author	salsamasterer
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	March 17, 2019 10:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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