Will there really be a higher 'peak' after university? Even with the success that comes from constant hard work I'm honestly not sure anything else will match.

Tarmyniatur · 2020-06-11T20:31:20+00:00

If you were one of the top guys in your university and aren't one of the top guys after that you will obviously feel you peaked in university.

glowing_dolphins · 2020-06-11T21:47:59+00:00

Uni is one of the last major self-contained Acts in the play. The rest is less distinct and entirely up to you.

Life doesn’t happen in 4-6 year blocks anymore. Friend groups become something you do, rather than something that happens. You have to actually organise things, not just show up for class. I enjoyed women more after college when they got a bit of sense.

The untethered intensity will probably not repeat. You will own things and become someone, and find a new reward in being your own person. You’ll find totally different kinds of happiness that were hidden in your college years.

Everyone pines after their youth. It’s what all the songs and books are about. Whenever you’re lost, just know that that’s your cue to reinvent and come back more complete, ready for new experiences.

McLovinReturns · 2020-06-11T20:30:06+00:00

Herd Mentality, if you can't learn to be independent and enjoy time with yourself then you won't be happy. You shouldn't need outside validation to confirm your worth

LeEpicTrollxD · 2020-06-11T21:44:31+00:00

Start a business, become a multi-millionaire, buy a nice apartment in the heart of a big city. You now have access to more and better pussy than any college frat star could ever dream of

jojojijo333 · 2020-06-11T21:55:53+00:00

Dude you're too extreme, you can both work and play hard

thrwy75479 · 2020-06-11T22:12:00+00:00

But will anything honestly top the university lifestyle?

It's not all dark. You'll find that as you age, what you find enjoyment in will change.

For instance, paying off your mortgage early, or nailing a presentation at work, or hitting sales targets in your business, etc. will become more fulfilling.

Certain things will always be amusing though; hot 20-somethings being one of them. Logistics is key. If you situate yourself in a cool area, in a big city, you'll still be able to bag a few now and then.

If logistics aren't good, then yea, it'll be more difficult to find those type of girls as it would require more time, and energy, both of which will become limited. LTRs may become a preference, as it's easy access to pussy, and you may seek emotional fulfillment not had in flings, and short-term encounters.

Maintaining healthy relationships is vital for your well-being. This will become more difficult but worth it in the long run. Don't skimp in this area as it's easy to do when you're busy with your career, or business.

You're a ways from it, but when you're financially stable, you may think about kids, and your legacy. While a lot of people have complaints about them, anecdotally, every couple I know has far more happy memories than negative accounts in regards to their kids. If you have them, it may become another source of enjoyment for you.

Rather than looking at it as the end, look forward towards new challenges to overcome, and experiences to have.

Joe_Doblow · 2020-06-12T02:03:17+00:00

Maybe yes but it will require boatloads of cash. A band of good friends who enjoy to party and have boatloads of cash. And you’d need decent amount of free time and to be single with little responsibilities.

I lived in the Miami area before and had one bud who was a party animal. We had some college level partying adventures and we also had $$$. But it really is hard to sustain that

KingGerbz · 2020-06-12T03:26:50+00:00

I had my fair share of Greek row debauchery at a division 1 state university (40,000+ undergrads). Still, I know my best days are ahead of me. Imagine throwing parties with A-list celebrities at your $20,000,000 estate in the Hills. That sounds way more lit than any university party

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