A girl that I work with at different companies but in the same building started talking to me months ago. When we first started talking it was like 2 hours one night, she then added me on WhatsApp that night and we kept talking. We would hang out at work events and go out to eat and stuff. Some event we went to featured another girl I knew, and I was talking to her for a bit. When she emailed me later she said "your friend seemed frustrated at my very existence" so I took it to mean she seemed jealous I was talking to another woman. When I text her she replies right away. She texts me frequently about various things. She baked me a cake for my birthday. I had supper with her and she specifically made a comment about it not being a date. She comes to visit me in my office all the time. She invited me to a movie a couple of weekends ago and I went. My living situation was not that good and she invited me to stay with her, which I am now doing. We have an environment where it's basically like we're married except we're not holding hands and fucking. We cook together and hang out together. It's awesome.

Now I am wondering what I am getting from this? Feminine energy. I fucking love being around her. From the beginning I was into her but now I think I'm just in love with being around her. I'm dating someone else currently. In standard manner, I'm pondering this too much and worried I'm going to fuck up this awesome situation.

How is she getting something from this? Am I a girlfriend to her? We actually went on a pseudo date but it wasn't very datey.

This woman is awesome, she's super smart and we're at similar places in our careers, both business owners.

if I am being honest, there is probably one point all days where I have the urge to kiss her, but I never do. Normally it's in the kitchen when she's looking at me and we're talking after work. I actually don't think it would go well. A common friend said she just wants to be friends with me. Now fuck she smells good.

What's going on?