Basically, 7/10 virgin with insecurity issues. She lives with parents and is sheltered as fuck. Don't think she has done anything sexual. I reluctantly committed (before RP) to a relationship Before sex. She isn't very sexual besides kissing and shuts me down whenever I try to escalate, not even a shirt off. She has a few extra pounds on her stomach and is kinda insecure.

I live with parents But never bring any girls home. Ever. I still fuck girls on the side but I don't tell her. She knows that I am able and will fuck other girls and jokes about me. I brought up an open relationship for shit and giggles and actually convinced her, as long as I told her About it And that she should step up her game. Should I do this? I'd feel extra sour if she started banging other dudes because that's pretty trashy.

I'm living in my prime and slowly wasting my life away. it's frustrating. I have a high sex drive but she has a nonexistent one. I don't even think she ever masturbated before. I'm hoping that I'll be able to dread her into sex. Why should I hang out with you when I can have a Better time with X? It's gotten to a point where her lack of sex drive and insecurity is extremely unattractive, but I do like her personality. Being low on the Smv scale, I take what I can get sometimes as my day game is rough.

Typical response is that this is too much time wasted, but I would like to hone my dread skills to getting what I want or else. She values me like a trophy on her wall and does Not value my needs. If I bring up 'have sex or bye', that is butthurt and Beta as fuck. I really want to take what I want but I am not good at escalating/LMR.

What say you?