Hey guys. Ive been going ut alone for the passed 3 years. I found a wing about 2 months ago and we've been hitting it up every weekend since.

In the start he was really active, beast approaching everything without care for logistics of the set, which was awesome. He came across as a cool guy with mad verbal game. He had a cool vibe which on its own could have gotten girls interested. But he didint escelate at all! So I told him to.

Now when we go out he just stands there. He doesnt approach, he just looks at me or in to the void kind of. And if I open a set he comes rushing in 2 minutes later without calibration to me or the set it self and comes across as a preditor. And I can feel that it freaks girls out.

Is there any studies on how to do "wingman" game in the best way? Feels like we have no structure and the sets are just a free for all. Thanks.