I'm roughly 70% through with No More Mr. Nice Guy! and it's been eye-opening. I'm making great strides with personal growth because of that book and I strongly recommend it to anyone who hasn't picked it up yet. During my read, I've encountered a few areas where the author describes issues that the recovering Nice Guy might have and many resonate with me. Specifically, the issues with inability to perform sexually or encountering premature ejaculation are problems I've tried to fix for years now.

I know that these problems are in my mind, and I want to find out how to overcome them. I've read a lot of advice threads here and elsewhere where guys are looking for help, but I haven't yet encountered anyone who has been able to say, "I had this problem and I beat it." So, that's what I'm looking for. For me, the problem tends to go away once I'm more comfortable with a woman, but it's always a shit show getting to that point. Does anyone have advice or experience overcoming these particular problems?