So like a lot of guys, I'm a pussy. I've just never had the balls to do a cold approach. I've always just tried to meet women online but lets face it, this is cowardly. The only thing holding me back regarding cold approaches is that I hate being rejected, it makes me feel like shit. Now I've had a lot of women say I'm handsome (7/10 perhaps), but just being good-looking is not enough to land a girlfriend/fwb, lets face it.

In university, I've been in a lot of situations where a girl would be looking at me in the hallway or something but I'm just not courageous enough to ask a random girl for her number.

Now, this is what I'm thinking I should do:

  • I should only approach women who gave me positive looks

  • I would never cold approach women who have headphones in or studying hard. We all know that the headphones in means they don't want to be bothered

  • I'm thinking about going up to women and saying "Hi, my name is Casper, I think you're pretty cute. Here (hands phone to her) and say "put your phone number in, we should go to lunch/dinner sometime".

Ok, now the only problem I'm having is what the hell do I say when I cold approach ? Do I be too blunt like in the last point or no ? What the hell do I say is my question.

I think it is better to not ask for a girl's phone number but instead just to hand it to her and tell her to put her number in because it is assertive and if I were to ask for their number, they will hesitate or take too long answering the question.

So, what do you all think ? Or am I retarded ? I just don't want to do online dating anymore, there are no quality women on there. Thanks for the advice!