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GirTheRobot/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 05:07 PM
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Red Pill ExampleGirTheRobot/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 05:37 AM
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Field ReportGirTheRobot/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 10:56 PM
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GirTheRobot/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 05:14 PM
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GirTheRobot/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:16 AM
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GirTheRobot/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:23 PM
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Field ReportGirTheRobot/r/seduction21/07/13 06:32 AM
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GirTheRobot/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:52 AM
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GirTheRobot/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:56 PM
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GirTheRobot/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 08:30 PM
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Believe all survivors or systemic racism? Which one takes priority? Hmmm....
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/21 06:09 AM
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This sub is super zealous about all its rules (only text for logistics, etc.) but you can definitely break some of them. There's nothing wrong with having an Instagram account. If all you do is take selfies and beg for validation yeah that's pretty girly...
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:58 PM
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If you have a photography hobby you should definitely get an Instagram. I make music and so I upload me playing piano or guitar or playing with samplers and synths or whatever. I'll also post videos related to music and let people know when I put up a new YouTube video (also related to music). Oh btw I did end up hooking up with a girl cause of Instagram. We met in person at a party (which I had brought a different girl to) and we decided to follow each other. Then I "slid into her dms" as they …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:16 PM
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Funny how this redpill stuff can be totally wrong depending on the girl. The whole "text only logistics" thing doesn't seem to be as black and white as we make it out to be.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:49 AM
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Think you might be right. She's not responding to texts about logistics anymore...Idk man lol
/r/askTRP10/08/19 08:52 PM
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Being "dominant" isn't necessary the answer though. Dogs learn best if they associate with positive energy. So if your dog isn't coming when called, you don't *demand* he come when called and punish him if he doesn't...You hold out treats and smile and praise him when he comes. Cesar Milan's methods aren't actually all that good. Dogs should never be afraid of you--they should want to work with you and LOVE to work with you. Anyone interested in this should read The Art of Raising a Puppy. It's …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 05:37 AM
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Yes because helping individual men and calling attention to men in general are two mutually exclusive things Yes because I happen to appreciate the men's rights movement it means I have no other hobbies or interests at all--I am an automoton with just one concern on my mind at all times Give me a fucking break
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 08:29 PM
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Fair enough. I do also agree that men have to make these changes themselves (or I wouldn't be here on this subreddit) but I think it's equally important to call attention to what I see as the mistreatment and demonization of men in our society. That's something "fixing yourself" won't really do. Voices like Paul Elam, Tom Golden, Karen Straughan, Cassie Jaye and Christina Hoff Sommers are very helpful in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:14 PM
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You know for a fact this isn't true because you're here on TRP. How many men have been completely fucked over by family courts? We talk about this here all the time. How many men have entered marriage only to end up trying to appease their wife the whole time and ending in divorce? How many men are cucked without their knowing it? 30% of men who do paternity testing of their kids find they're not the biological father. How many men end up with their lives completely shattered due to #metoo alleg…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:40 PM
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The men's rights movement is arguably the most important movement of our time and he is a leading voice in it. Do I want to be like him in every regard? Of course not. But I respect his work and his voice. ​ Here I thought TRP was about staying on your purpose. And you're faulting Paul Elam for not having women lining up at his book signings and fawning over him? I ask you, what TRP author DOES have women lining up at his book signings? ​ He's not peddling anything more bullshit than what we're …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:26 PM
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He is actually literally fat. But he's far from effeminate. The man is apparently 6'8 and 280 pounds according to an anecdote in his book. This probably also explains why his "method" for getting women is to just "be around them and ignore them." Which I don't deny worked for him, but for your average guy we gotta put in a bit more work. ​ As for whininess, members of this forum tend to think that men pointing out male-related issues and trying to fix them are "whiny." There is a pretty sharp di…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:18 PM
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Do you have a link to good instant pot recipes?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 06:56 PM
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I find myself thankful I haven't gotten married or had kids. I'm glad I found TRP at a relatively young age
/r/askTRP06/08/19 02:28 PM
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Why do you need to research venues? You should have a few key places you already like. If not that's fine, takes a few minutes to find some. There is no coordinating of schedules. It's simply "Let's meet at this place at this time on this day" and if she says she's busy, you say that's fine and leave it at that--she's not too interested. If she says she can't do that day but can do x day instead, then tell her you can make it work
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:47 PM
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I disagree with this. If he doesn't show physical attraction how will she knows he's into her? He still needs to escalate, kino etc
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:06 PM
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Because women are the selectors and have been since the dawn of the human race.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:40 PM
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It seems like you're handling this well. You withdrew attention and she came back to you craving it. But you're not "apparently in a relationship", you need to define those terms as the man. Are you, or are you not? Because from the tone of this post it sounds like you don't want to be.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:02 AM
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I thought it was all about plausible deniability. You want her thinking "well maybe he's just trying to watch a movie"
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:42 PM
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Bruh there's a difference between enjoying my time with her/considering her an FWB and thinking she's a fucking unicorn. You seem to lack any nuance. It's a sign of weakness to feel toward her at all? Really? So you're supposed to be 100% stone cold alpha all the time not a single shred of compassion? Okay buddy.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:40 PM
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So then what's the difference between a plate and an FWB to you? ​ I'm not trying to exaggerate the incidence, this is what I've read here on these forums. Maybe the dudes here were exaggerating
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:18 PM
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You're being satirical, right?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:17 PM
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Cmon man you don't talk to your buddies about women you've been with? And this whole sub is dedicated to talking about women we've fucked. Yeah I know it's not "public" but whatever
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:19 AM
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I just got a puppy (he's at 12 weeks now, got him at 10 weeks) and it's been a great experience. The Monks of New Skete in their book The Art of Raising A Puppy mention how raising a dog teaches you as much about yourself as it does about them. Very quickly I've tapped into my more nurturing nature that I never knew existed and I also feel a sense of responsibility that I didn't have before. Plus, the little guy is just insanely cute and I'm looking forward to years of companionship.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:41 PM
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Is the sitting OH press (with the machine I think? But you just put some weights on a couple arms and press) a good replacement if I want to push to 1 or 3 reps? Because I've literally never done 1 rep with anything and it kinda scares me lol
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:49 AM
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Thanks man. Kinda what I needed to hear. Following the specifics of this program is kind of a head-scratcher at first, though. But I think I've got a better handle on it now after more research and looking around.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:20 PM
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Why do you put "she" in quotes? Implying this guy is banging a dude and doesn't know it? Lmao
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:16 PM
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Why is it that if they have less self respect they'd try to work against you?
/r/askTRP05/07/19 02:57 PM
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This is the reality of the sexual marketplace my friend. You're right, it isn't fair. Young women have a much easier time than young men in the same market. This is the incel curse and generally what leads many of us to this sub in the first place. I remember talking with my friend when we were 19, 20, and we both agreed that nearly every girl we'd talk to or go on a date with doesn't really DO anything in their free time besides "watch Netflix" and that they're actually pretty uninteresting.. B…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:42 PM
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Marriage strike: This is MGTOW. Bare in mind Paul Elam, one of the most outspoken in favor of MGTOW, has been in an LTR for 15 years or something. But he will not get married. Leaving: To where? And why not advocate change here? Reducing taxes you pay: Huh? How? Other than voting for people who will lower our taxes. Just avoid paying taxes? Avoiding feminists: I believe the entirety of MGTOW, MRA and RPA dudes (let's say "manosphere") already does this. Also, completely avoiding those who disagr…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:05 PM
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MRAs want the same thing we do. No divorce rape, no more "all men are toxic" narrative, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 05:04 PM
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Read grade-A, world class literature. Tolstoy, Steinbeck, Dostoevsky, Nabokov, Fante, Bukowski, Dumas, Kesey, McCarthy, Kafka, David Foster Wallace (my personal favorite, start with Brief Interviews of Hideous Men), Carver, Turgenev, Philip K Dick... Lots of blue pills in there that may make you roll your eyes, but it's still beautiful and engaging writing. Once you read this stuff you'll realize most tories/characters in most movies and TV shows are just one-dimensional and boring. Very few vis…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:01 PM
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Here's a Bill Burr paraphrasing: "All you girls that say you dress up and look sexy for yourselves and because you wanna feel good, how come I don't see any of you in high heels and a mini skirt while doing chores around the house?" This is why we preach to not listen to what they say, OP. What they're responding with is just feminist narrative nonsense. Both sexes dress nicely for the opposite sex, regardless of what either says.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:53 PM
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>female >friend pick one
/r/askTRP28/06/19 04:41 AM
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Joke about it with her and don't give her what she wants. ​ I was flirting with this girl at a party one time and we ended up waiting in line for the bathroom. She acted all cute and asked if she could go first, and I said "Nope, sorry, I got here first" and continued chatting. When the door opened she looked at me as if expecting me to let her go, and I just smiled and walked in myself.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:53 AM
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Hmm for the most part, I think you're right. But there's no way in hell you can be a modern-day feminist and call yourself TRP, and modern-day feminism aligns itself with leftism almost exclusively.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:50 AM
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How The Fuck Does He Capitalize Every Word On Mobile Like That? It Must Be More Work Than It's Worth Like wtf
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 06:18 PM
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Every date I've been on in the past year: "I'll buy the first round if you get the second." "Deal." ​ Never a fuss, very straight forward, and the dynamic is set up from the beginning. ​ When I tell my female coworkers I don't buy women anything they tell me it's wrong and I'm not nice or something. It's funny.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:02 PM
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I had a coworker who is in her mid 30s, overweight and stuck with kids and a husband she's no longer attracted to tell me, in reference to my dating life, that I'm approaching 30. I didn't have the heart to tell her that for men it's completely different. I just smiled and shrugged it off. Poor thing.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:54 PM
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Welcome to adulthood. Pick a job/career that you don't totally hate/provides fulfillment (and ideally pays well) and you'll get along alright. ​ If you're stuck working a 9-5 you hate just to support a girl and some kids, that's about as depressing as it gets. So at least be grateful that you don't have kids yet. This is why I don't want kids until I'm firmly settled into my career--which is a difficult one to get my footing with (music--performance, recording, engineering, teaching).
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:54 AM
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dude five pounds in a week is insane. clean bulking is .5-1lb a week you're way overdoing it
/r/askTRP23/06/19 05:00 AM
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I was gonna say "yeah dude just go and amog cmon" but if they're literal gang bangers then yeah stay wlaway from that mess
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:30 PM
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but this is "facts and logic" in and of itself ;P ​ I'm not trying to be a smartass here, either. Realizing the truth that most people just don't care all that much about logic and reason, and moreso care about emotions and what makes them feel a certain way, goes a long way in your interacting with them.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:33 PM
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Yep I never compliment women unless they're obviously into me. Like if they're just being fun and cute and feminine around me and giggling like little schoolgirls, I'll point that out and tell them how cute they're being, making them blush. I do compliment them on stuff they're wearing. It can be a nice in, too. I. E. "I like your top, where did you get it?" But yeah I haven't called a girl "pretty" or "beautiful" (unless they're in bed with me) in ages.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 05:12 AM
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It happens man. The saying is 10% of numbers will get you a response. 10% of responses will get you a date. 10% of dates will get you a lay. This girl just plain isn't that interested for whatever reason, that's fine. Next time you see her she'll probably say something like "sorry I didn't respond blah blah blah" and you just smile and say it's fine. I've bee in the same situation. Also, your text could be a bit better. Exclamations are a bit boyish and say "HEY like me!!." Always set a place an…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:57 PM
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It could be seen as you sort of picking on them or not approving of their behavior. Say something more flirty and cocky instead "Goodness I must make you smile a lot, huh?" "Well aren't you cute? You just don't stop smiling around me" and then lightly touch her
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:48 PM
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I don't even agree with that though. We need to consume in order to produce. Nobody makes things in a vacuum. You think the top directors and songwriters just don't watch movies or listen to music? They have to get good, worthwhile ideas from somewhere. Not to mention how many artists got inspiration from other forms of entertainment outside their craft.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:51 PM
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Seriously it's maddening. Every single person spends SOME amount of time CONSUMING for God's sake. How the fuck do you think Joe Rogan is able to talk about movies he's seen on his podcast? How do you think Jordan Peterson is able to talk about the simpsons? What about ANY successful person who talks about sports at ALL? I listen to Bill Burr's podcast twice a week and am consistently amazed with how much sports he watches and how he keeps up with all of it. But fuck it, he does it, and he clear…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 04:55 AM
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Really tired of seeing this stuff. Saying video games are a waste of time is like saying reading fiction books, watching movies, watching TV shows, listening to music is all a waste of time--all of which I disagree with too. As I've said before, we need to be mindful of our media consumption. Video games are an art form like any of the other above forms of media, and being able to properly critique and look at them just like you would any other form of media is important, too. ​ Let's at least b…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 04:50 AM
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Just keep it natural. You like her dress? Say so. You like her hairstyle? Say so. Is she acting really cute and fun around you? Tell her she's being a real fucking cutie and then kiss her. ​ But yeah, don't shower her with "oh you're so beautiful" and all that nonsense. Your compliments are sort of like rewards...
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:06 AM
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That's an insane amount of money just to fix a nose man. Imagine all the other shit you could put that money toward. ​ When women shit test you tell them your sense of smell is impeccable
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:58 AM
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How to make friends and influence people is a classic. Look through my post history and read both of my posts about conversationalism. Those will get you going.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 02:48 PM
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Honestly dude it just depends on the girl in my experience. Some girls might say something flirty or silly and I might say "haha okay bitch" or "bitch please" or whatever it is and they'll laugh about it. Some girls would take offense...Just know your audience.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 05:09 AM
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Great post, these were fun. I have a comment that's sitting at 420 points in asktrp and it's not on this list :( The thread is "you can beat women by playing their game"
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 03:43 AM
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Bill Burr had a rant about this recently that's pretty funny. ​ Woman: "My body, my choice." Man: "But I want to keep the kid." Judge: "Well you're kinda SOL there buddy." ​ Woman: "I feel like having this baby." Man: "Well I wanted no part of that to begin with and I made that clear so leave me out of it." Judge: "Tough shit bud. It takes two to tango. It's your responsibility now. Man up." ​ But yes OP, you're right. The only people saying what you're saying are men's rights activists...Which …
/r/askTRP12/06/19 11:03 PM
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Speak with your chest voice so that you project without speaking loudly. Keep eye contact, but also don't be afraid to break when it's appropriate I. E. you're trying to recall something and you sort of look off up to the ceiling. Listen when people speak and look them in the eyes. Practice genuinely smiling. Look up the difference between a genuine one and a fake one. It has to do with the squinting of the eyes. Speak your opinion calmly and concisely. If someone says something that makes you t…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 09:50 PM
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They're "underpaid" because they are unskilled laborers. What your bosses do require some sort of skill, even if that's literally just experience and leadership, so the bosses are gonna get paid more. Their bosses have more experience and more leadership/management skills, so they're going to get paid even more. Capiche? This is why we preach that we need to work on ourselves so that we're not a bunch of unskilled laborers at age 30. You're going to school so at least you have that going for you…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:16 PM
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I made two posts about conversationalism on the main sub that you can find if you look through my post history. This will just help you converse with anyone/everyone regardless of age, gender, etc. ​ As for expanding your friend circle, I've done a decent job of it recently just by doing things I want to do. I'm a musician/sound tech, so I go out and play shows and meet people playing shows and help them with sound and whatever else. Just by virtue of conversing with them, treating them like ind…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:03 PM
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Good post man. Sounds like a fun life. I was having a discussion with my friend about how I don't think I'll ever get married (but I do want kids at some point...) and he was talking about how his parents have been happily married for like 30 years. I said that's all fine and good, but half of marriages end in divorce (which everyone already knows) and I have a strong feeling that another 20-30% at least *could* end in divorce. How many married couples do you see that just seem miserable? Like t…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 03:57 PM
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Speak with your chest voice and speak so that your voice doesn't get caught in your throat I. E. "forward". This way your voice will project even if you're not necessarily speaking loudly. It will also make your voice as naturally deep as it can be (that is without sounding forced) and women like deep voices... Don't be monophonic. Let your phrasing rise and fall naturally. It's okay if your voice gets higher cause you're excited/passionate about something--it's only natural. To not do so would …
/r/askTRP07/06/19 02:32 AM
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I really don't have these experiences with women. Every girl I go out with or attract or decide to plate or date or whatever, they all have a good sense of humor and are pretty smart. If a girl is an airhead, then I won't ask her out on a date. Maybe you're not filtering enough. But ever since discovering the redpill I've gotten along with women a lot more.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:56 PM
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When I first started out I had a buddy show me some exercises. Even if I didn't have him, I used bodybuilding.com and some of their lists. For instance, if you're looking to do an arm day, look at one of their arm day routines. They'll have a list of all the exercises and videos of how to do them with proper form. Take your time--practice makes perfect. ​ I've been doing it for a couple years and I still occasionally hop on a new machine I've never used before. I sit there and read the instructi…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:32 PM
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No. I'm happy it's all true. I'm happy to know there is a relatively reliable set of rules I can apply to get the results I desire. I'm happy to know that I don't believe in any fairy tale fantasies or trappings of what I used to think women want. The redpill has also just made me enjoy spending time with women more. They're no longer confusing. They no longer intimidate me. They're just fun. Flirting with women is fun. Kissing them is fun. All of that stuff. I have the redpill to thank
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:39 PM
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Thanks for the kudos. There's a bit more sexual strategy in part 1, but I didn't find a way (or see a need) to shoehorn it into this topic. As for your joke about abortions, that's totally fine. I'd say you were even deflecting the situation and making light of it. That's different. I have tried to discuss politics without revealing which side of the coin I'm on and people still get emotional. I might even say "Well how about this/that" and then they'll assume I'm taking that position and get pi…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 05:40 PM
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TRP is a sexual strategy and self improvement method that goes against the feminine imperative, that's why it's disliked. Female sexual strategy is A-OK
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:45 PM
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Yeah the ones whom you like more than others, just find them in their social group and insert yourself. Obviously if everyone likes you as much as you say they won't have a problem with it. Maybe you'll meet some LADIES along the way too I wish I was redpilled in high school. Shit would've been way, way different. Have fun.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:37 PM
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I don't know why people are being such assholes to you in this thread. Friendship in school is good. OP what I would do is make conversation with some of those kids you chat with in class. So if you're getting along with Bobby in chemistry, the next time you see him and his group of friends hanging out in campus walk over, say hi, talk about the most recent game or whatever it is you kids do. Then youll get in with his circle. I did this in high school and I wasn't even the most likable/social p…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:28 PM
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I used to disagree with it, too. But I've just been soured on it far too many times to willingly seek it out anymore. If you are trying to get a dialogue going that's better than small talk, there are lots of less hairy subjects than politics and religion.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:07 PM
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Pt. 1 was posted just a couple days ago. Look through and you'll find it. Being a good conversationalist is attractive.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:02 PM
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Keep it up dude I recommend commenting on the environment or on something about her. Not necessarily a compliment, though it could be. "Nice top, where'd you get it? Oh Goodwill huh? Man some people go fucking crazy for the bins over there..." etc. Thread ideas together. See my recent post on conversationalism
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:41 AM
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I have a coworker who would do similar things. Probably about the same age. I would tell her all the time "Stop apologizing! You have nothing to apologize for." I think one of my bosses (a very sweet, nurturing lady) told her the same thing. Now she apologizes less. She's a little more confident So yeah just nudge her I guess.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:37 AM
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Some people just might not want to open up, and that's fine. Then you change the subject and try talking about something else. Or depending on the context, don't say anything at all. It's all about reading the room.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:08 AM
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This stuff doesn't happen over night. It takes a lot of practice and failure and calibration and time to accrue interests, hobbies, ideas. I would just try to shoot the shit, make funny observations, and ask people about themselves. Even though I've given you a lot to think about, well...don't think about it too much. Just act natural and be calm, kind, fun. Later when you look back on the things you said you may regret some of it and realize you could've said some things better. It's all part o…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 03:05 AM
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It's only weird if they ask and you outright don't answer. If they don't ask, or they don't get a chance to ask, then it's not weird. They walk away from the interaction thinking "Man what a kind/interesting guy..." and then realizing they actually know very little about you. My general rule is to never talk about myself initially unless they're asking me. My example I gave above I believe illustrated the mysteriousness I was talking about. If I came right out to a girl and said "I'm a multi-ins…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 02:41 AM
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I used to be the guy who would only discuss deep things. But when you open yourself up to sort of "playing dumb" as it were (obviously don't dumb yourself down or act stupid) you can make a lot more connections with a lot more people. There's this guy at my work who definitely isn't into all the same shit I am, or at the same level. So instead we just spend the whole time talking about how we're gaming chicks, because he's pretty naturally redpilled. Sharing pictures of women we're banging, tryi…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 12:42 AM
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Treat it the same as you would a man. But when the iois start popping off start flirting, teasing, etc. Treat her like you would a woman, I guess. I'm sure others will have different opinions.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 12:24 AM
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I think part of it was her youth. She told me she's 19, and from what I remember of being 19, it was hard to keep my mouth shut about some things...
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 10:56 PM
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Yep exactly. Something I wanted to point out (will probably go into more detail later) is that I used to be the "awkward guy". People straight up told me I made them feel awkward, or made them cringe, or they didn't know what to say to some things I said. Which is why I decided to get better at all this stuff. Not a single bit of this is "natural" to me. It's all learned experience with lots of failure and observation. ​ Self awareness is very important. That's why we're here.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 09:21 PM
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Well put
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:18 PM
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That's something I'm learning more, myself. I've been listening to Bill Burr's podcast a lot and he has a knack for bitching about everything, but making it laugh out loud funny. It's very easy to complain about things, but it takes a certain amount of charm and pizazz to complain about things and get people laughing at the same time. Red Letter Media is very good at this, too. It's all a learning process.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 09:14 PM
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Someone asked this question just yesterday. My general rule of thumb is to make an observation about the environment or about her shirt, her pants, whatever it is. Go read the thread I just posted about conversationalism on the main sub.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:34 PM
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As I said at the beginning: Conversationalism is a broad and deep topic. In one of my next parts the subject I was going to address was "Shallow vs deep talk." At this rate I wouldn't be surprised if this series ends up being three or four parts...I'm surprised this one part was as long as it was, actually. The short end of it is: Read the room. I love, love, love intellectually stimulating conversations with anyone regardless of gender. You're right that after you have those conversations you'l…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 08:30 PM
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If it's with a random person I've never met before, I'd say generally yes. Commenting on the environment or on their clothes is generally a very easy way into conversation. If they're open to having one (and most people go out to do just that) then it'll naturally branch and twist and turn fairly quickly. You also have to be good at guiding the twists and turns and making the connections, that is an art in and of itself. For instance, that girl at the coffee shop who told me her mom caught her d…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 08:12 PM
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Nothing. Or I could've just smiled and said thank you. It wasn't a shit test or anything. Just a nice compliment and her expressing why she's so attracted to me.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 07:43 PM
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Thanks man, and you're totally right. I've said it here before but this whole redpill thing isn't about attracting women per se, it's just about being attractive period. Being a good conversationalist is one of those qualities.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 06:36 PM
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Always lead and take action. You're a man. "Hey let's grab a drink some time. What's your number?"
/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:35 PM
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I see lots of people on this subreddit say they have issues keeping a conversation going, or don't know what to say, so I've started work on a guide on conversationalism. I just made the first post over at the main sub, be sure to check it out. ​ But yes, five minutes is A-OK for building rapport. Generally you can tell if a girl is mildly interested within the first five seconds. That brunette girl with all the coffee drinks? Not interested. That blond girl with her ex-boyfriend's shirt? She wa…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:28 PM
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Totally agree, man. Context is key. I don't not call girls pretty or cute anymore...I just don't randomly do it over text. I was out with a girl the other day and she was explaining something to me she was passionate about, airing her frustrations a bit and then grabbing my arm, laughing, putting her head on it for comfort. I said "My you're awfully cute when you explain things, did you know that?" which I could tell she greatly appreciated.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:02 PM
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From your post it sounds like you've swallowed the pill. Why do you feel you have not swallowed? Because you're the same as you were before? Maybe you were naturally redpilled or your life was on track before, and swallowing the pill wasn't as big of a deal to you?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:53 AM
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You just swallow the thing whole fucking hog man. "Fuck I want to tell this girl she looks pretty, but she won't be as attracted to me if I do, so I guess I can't." "Fuck I want a girl to talk to, but I'll be less interesting to her if I do, so I guess I can't." "Fuck I want someone to vent to, but girls want strong, solid rocks, so I'll go vent to a bro or my dog." ​ You have to buy into the whole thing, no half measures. These are all really small pieces of a large puzzle.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:51 AM
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Don't do that third bullet. You need to build rapport first before a girl would want to give you her number. She may give it to you anyway, but don't expect a response. ​ This stuff is hard and I feel you man, but I've had the best luck just commenting on the environment or whatever she's wearing. Girl in line behind me at the gas station? What are you buying? Oh a birthday cake flavored protein bar huh? Is that thing any good? I've been really into this shake I've been making lately... ​ Or thi…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:58 AM
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This is one of three girls on my mind right now. The second is a broken plate I rekindled with last night and the third is a girl I just met last night at the same place.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:09 AM
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Well I just called and she didn't answer so that's that. Guess if she texts back asking what's up I'll setup the date then.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:47 AM
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I feel like calling a girl that I've been on a couple dates with (got everywhere but f-close). Make light chat and then set up the next date. ​ Do you find they treat you differently after you call and they don't answer? Or just a "sorry I couldn't answer my phone what's up" text? ​ There was this FWB who was way into me and I'd tell her straight up I was busy with something but she'd call anyway and leave a message giggling asking about how my day was, wanting to hear my voice, etc.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 02:54 AM
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If you don't need their company then you don't need their company, simple as that. Consider it part of your purpose. ​ But I would advise you to see people as more than "slimy garbage" because people can enrich your life in a myriad of ways. Plus, every one is an individual and you never know who they are until you talk to them and converse. ​ You also said you don't plan on changing, but I really think your mindset is scary. ​ The world isn't boring. It's a vast place full of all sorts of thing…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 02:51 AM
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I don't get it...Were the bags heavy? Was she carrying too many? Was she asking you to carry all of the bags while she did nothing or just take a load off a bit? ​ Redpill isn't about being an asshole. If any person I'm close with (friend, family member, fuckbuddy, whatever) is carrying a bunch of shit and they ask me for help I'm going to help them. If it's some girl who's clearly trying to fuck with me (girls do this obviously) and just wants me to carry her shit for the sake of carrying her s…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:40 PM
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Bruh she's just a plate. Say "No worries" and reach out again some other time
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:30 PM
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Dude smiling is awesome. Ever been around a person who's naturally smiling all the time? It's very attractive. You can be that person. As long as it's a genuine smile. Look into genuine vs disingenuous
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:19 AM
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This guy giving her validation and shit. She's gonna get real bored with him real fucking quick.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:29 AM
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nice reports
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:20 PM
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you broke frame bro if you had never smiled in the first place then she wouldn't feel like she has power over you now that you're smiling so i'm sorry she's probably already on the lookout for chadcock your best bet is to incorporate some dread and hope she doesn't file for a divorce leaving you with half your shit gg bro ​ go lift
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:26 PM
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lmfao
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:36 PM
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Post prom poon potential sounds like a punk band
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:55 PM
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As to your comment about making yourself go to the gym : That's a GOOD thing and shows willpower and dedication. I don't really like going to the gym either, but I do it and feel good about it. That habit you made out of going to the gym? Do the same thing with other activities. They say it takes six weeks to form a habit. So start reading a good book for a half hour to an hour a day. After six weeks, you'll be craving good books and really want them, even if maybe you don't feel like reading th…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:16 PM
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We're not allowed to link to other subs here. Something something "brigading" something something "shut down" so the automods take down our links. I'd like to see it too, though. Or at least know what sub it's on.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 08:10 PM
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If anything you should try to talk to her more now. Build up rapport, crack some jokes, etc. If you're just some random guy she's never talked to asking her to prom she'll most likely say no... Have fun dude
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:01 PM
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"...How much longer does this go on for?" (scrolls down) "Oh..." (scrolls down) "...Oh. Yeah. Nope."
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:00 AM
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I mean it's just "the road to hell is paved with good intentions"...
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 04:40 AM
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Came in to say this
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:07 PM
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Beautiful thread. Thanks op. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 06:14 AM
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Women are covert creatures. You show intent by your actions. You don't tell her "I think you're cute" you look at her a certain way as she's laughing at your jokes and you put your arm around her.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 10:51 PM
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Dude two months is nothing wtf. Also you're putting too much emphasis on sex and not your purpose.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:27 PM
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It's tricky. You gotta give people shit but not be an asshole. Do it more in a teasing, poking sort of way and smile about it. If they don't take it well back off. If they do then hopefully they agree and amplify or give some shit back. It's fun. I work customer service and I'm getting better at towing that very fine line. For instance there is this girl who comes in and one time she bought all sorts of items from the retail section. Next time she came in and I'd ring her up I'd say "oh jeez thi…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:23 PM
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This and Curb your enthusiasm both helped be get better at riffing. You can just start talking about anything and make jokes about it... Take it to its extremes...
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:17 PM
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dude of course you should go and socialize. not even just for meeting women but for meeting people. go and amog
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:30 PM
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I'm the same way. Every date goes like this "I'll buy the first round if you buy the second." "Deal."
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:29 AM
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Explain it to people or just talk about it.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:53 PM
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Just threw it in there. She laughed. It worked out between us later, let's say
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:00 PM
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I play chess and read articles
/r/askTRP14/05/19 08:03 PM
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I accidentally spilled water all over a girl (I had already built up rapport with her and we were flirting) "OMG I'm SOAKING wet" "Lord if I had a nickel..." Later on that night "Margaret the only two things I know about you is you like to sing and you like to be wet"
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:57 PM
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Old Tom leykis episodes on YouTube led me to the "treat women like shit" phase/ideas. Of course we all know it's a lot more nuanced than that, but that's the gist. I was an incel at the time and tired of failing. Then this sub got quarantined and I decided to take a look at it. Streisand effect and all that.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:39 PM
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One way to demonstrate value is to act in the abundance mindset. If a man has already hooked up with a woman, and now he's not responding to her texts all that much or he's not as available for her (in a myriad of ways) it implies abundance. This gets the female hamster spinning at warp speed and her desire for him intensifies. This is also basically "dread game". Like for instance if she sees you talking to other women and sees that you're still a very attractive prospect that other women desir…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 05:30 PM
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The only power women have over men is pussy and shaming. Take both of those away and they're nothing. Good on you. Reminds me of an anecdote I heard from this married guy who said to his wife that he wasn't going to have sex with her for six months and he meant it. At first she laughed but after a while she realized she lost all power and was begging for him. It was from that "married guys post here if you hate your life blog" which is a terrific read
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 03:40 PM
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Yes, you don't want too much full-interest, that's a good point. ​ This game can start to get very fun as you push and pull...You don't only push and pull with your words, but with your body language. One moment you can be very close to her, doing some kino and then the next you can take it away from her. Chances are she'll start initiating the next bout of kino, pulling you back in. I went out with a girl the other night and we were sitting with a group of friends. When I would lean in across t…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:02 AM
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Look into body language. How you carry/hold yourself says a lot about how you feel about yourself, and there is some evidence that adjusting how you carry/hold yourself will influence how you feel about yourself. So be open (chest forward, shoulders back and down), relaxed and natural. Take up space.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:39 AM
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Of course she was expecting backfire: She's shit testing your frame. AA is usually a good response, so at least you didn't lose your cool and get angry or anything. But I think when it's that level of insanity ignore and deflect might be better. Still, I don't have all the context. Even just something like "that's what you think? Okay then" with a smile.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 12:02 AM
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You shat where you eat. Don't do that again. Don't pursue her if she's paying you to work on her music.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 12:00 AM
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"hey let's go to my car listen to that band I mentioned" "haha okay" (make out etc)
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:25 PM
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She found another lay. Never settle for ljbf. If you're "working on music" in that you two are regularly in a band together then you just shat where you eat. If you're "working on music" in that she comes over sometimes and records every now and then then whatever.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:21 PM
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It's called having frame. Knocking them in the jaw is breaking frame. Don't do that. But also most women aren't like this. You can get into an argument with a lefty feminist if you want, or you can just ignore it and go on. Lots of women are still fun and feminine and you can tell they like playing the game with men. I was with this girl on Friday who bought all her drinks without a straw, had a Bernie sticker on her car, occasionally brought up how awful she thinks the world is, etc. I could've…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 10:35 PM
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Totally agree. I think this is a case where agree and amplify was not the right call at all. I wouldve just said "okay" or "whatever you say" or something and continued to talk to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 10:30 PM
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How would you recommend I guarantee progressive overload every week? If I bench 135 this week at 5 reps, should I go for 6 reps next week?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:08 PM
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I always say the three biggest things I've learned really have nothing to do with the red pill. Hold frame, agree and amplify, lift. These three things just happen to make you more attractive--but not just to the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:20 AM
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Thanks man. After reading this thread I've definitely decided to bulk for a while. At least until August (which will be 4 months) but I'll see what I weigh then. Might even bulk the rest of the year like some suggested. But yeah cutting is not on my mind at all now lol
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:13 PM
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Thanks for this but I'm very confused. A lot of people (even in this own thread, and a personal trainer I saw one time) have told me 2200 is a good goal. In top of that, like I said, if I've gained a bit of stomach fat wouldn't that indicate that I'm eating enough? Legitimate question as I don't actually KNOW if it indicates as such, I just assume it would.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:51 PM
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No I think I haven't been progressing for two big reasons: I've been neglecting heavy weight, compound exercises. Barbell BP, heavy squats, dips, pull ups/chin ups, barbell rows. I've only been doing muscle isolating exercises so even when I did bench press it would be a light weight with a focus on activating chest muscles specifically and NOT engaging triceps for instance. I haven't been keeping track of what exactly I'm lifting. Every week I should increase the weight on all exercises by at l…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:49 PM
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I must be one of the few who didn't go through the anger phase after discovering the red pill. I was angry beforehand, consciously aware of (but not being able to put into words/terms) young women's value in the smp, their hypergamy, their wanting men who don't treat them like blue pill betas etc. When I finally found the redpill and it confirmed all this stuff I was angry about, it actually kind of cured me and I accept women for what they are. I don't even think this subreddit is stuck in the …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 04:04 PM
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this shit is really funny dude. especially this ​ Women are essentially a depreciating asset. Like a car, they go down in value. And even worst, there is a 50% chance they will take your assets. Would you own a car that has a 50% chance of reducing your net worth 50%? Think of a car like a Lexus. Get a new one every three years. Or 36,000 miles. Which ever comes first.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:26 AM
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Stop listening to what women say. amen
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:34 AM
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Thanks bud this is helpful I was planning on only bulking the rest of May but now I think I should go longer. I basically bulked all of April but that was before I was on this program. So I'll keep going until idk...August or so? Then cut for a month?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:12 AM
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Thanks man you answered a lot of my questions. About zinc, magnesium, vitamin d and omega 3. Should I be taking these as supplements? I don't take any supplements at all.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:09 AM
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dude miley cyrus kicks ass lol ​ any chick who's cool enough to hang out with the flaming lips for a year and records music with them gets an A in my book
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:00 AM
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skip the sidebar and just read the rational male best of year lists. that's everything you need and he says it way better than the chumps in the sidebar
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:57 AM
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Athleanx is the reason I was doing isolation exercises with low weights (with no results) for so long...I'm talking slow, controlled side lateral raises with like 10 and 12.5 pounds. I was taking that whole concept and applying it to chest, arms, back, everything--skipping compound exercises entirely. ​ But I guess I need both compound (strength?) and isolation exercises to get the best results? Could that be my problem?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:53 AM
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What do you do for abs? And how often? And do you do abs when you're bulking?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:45 AM
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Where did you see I was doing 4 sets per week? ​ What I used to do (just recently stopped) was I'd have a chest day, an arm day, a back day, a leg day, and a shoulder day. On chest day I'd probably end up doing 16 sets (press, incline, decline, fly) of about 4x8 or 4x10. I think this is why I haven't been progressing. Now with PHUL I'll be hitting my chest with the same amount of sets, but twice a week. Cause it calls for a bench press and an incline dumbell press twice a week (4 sets each), one…
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:44 AM
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I usually do the stairstepper for cardio as I tend to HATE cardio and it's the only thing I can stand. ​ How often should I do HIIT cardio when bulking?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:38 AM
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Thank you I was thinking the same thing. Plus like I mentioned I've gained a bit of a tummy recently after upping my calories, so I don't think my intake is the problem.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:36 AM
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"I'll buy the first round, you buy the second." Hasn't failed me yet.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:13 AM
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Is there a good substitute for barbell rows or should I keep trying until I get my form and I don't hate it? You're right about my problem being that I haven't built any strength, that's the other thing I realized. Every time I went into the gym my rep ranges would be 8-10, and the weights never seemed to get heavier--but I always seemed to put forth a lot of effort and (again) I would always be sore. So I thought what I was doing was fine, but now I see I'm wrong. So to build strength I figure …
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:11 AM
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I've learned that lesson the hard way. I've got a tiny notebook with me and a pencil and I'm not making that mistake anymore. It's honestly insane to me that after all this time my bench press at 5 reps is only up to 125. But now I know...
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:29 AM
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How long are your bulk and cut cycles? How do you find your caloric deficit and surplus?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:52 AM
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They just don't know what they want and they're all repeating the same things they've been told they think they should want.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 12:36 AM
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Well put, brother. I also agree that it's absurd the comments are "Uhmm how about LISTENING to her and her NEEDS?" Oh really? You don't think these guys have tried that? These guys have been in relationships with these women for years and you think they spent this whole time just ignoring them and being selfish? Not doing anything for them? Not asking them what they like? It's absurd. Thank god TRP teaches us to STOP listening and to start observing. ​ That poor, poor AFC said he works 12 hour d…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 12:24 AM
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Wow this is such a great video holy shit. That guy should've held frame. She obviously wasn't offended you can tell by the look on her face she was enjoying the interacting and the teasing and the playfulness (watch her actions, not her words). If the man hadn't DEERed and hadn't apologized for being offended (and if this wasn't all on camera) he would've hella passed a shit test and made her super hot. ​ Doesn't help he's a real good looking guy, neither. ​ But that's it, boys. That's the look …
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:56 PM
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for social interactions how to make friends and influence people ​ and also remember to hold frame, lift, and agree and amplify ​ it'll take a couple years of calibration
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:10 AM
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I don't get why her skin color matters. ​ She is a feminist, but he's also giving her shit for it CONSTANTLY. Like the moment she walks in the room he jokes about her going back to the kitchen. I don't think she has him by the balls like the rest of the dudes say. When she's on the podcast, they're constantly riffing and jabbing at each other.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 05:07 AM
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Seriously I don't get the circle jerk around here against dating apps. I've gotten laid off tinder, friends have gotten laid off tinder, people around here talk about getting laid off tinder...Like I get it the app is kinda shitty and hella favors women (...you know, mirroring the SMP) and women are super picky with who they swipe right on. But spending 5-10 minutes a day to swipe right on some chicks, then chat them up for a bit is hardly a "waste of time." Yeah yeah approach and still do day g…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 05:05 AM
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You're being down voted because women have not been oppressed since "the dawn of mankind". That's just feminist myth that's seeped into the mainstream. Who were the ones dying in wars? Who were the ones doing extremely dangerous jobs to provide for the family? Who were the ones working very long hours at those dangerous jobs? You talk like a bluepiller. Go watch some Karen Straughan videos on YouTube and you'll see that "women and children first" has been our motto for a very, very long time. I …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 03:24 PM
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Agreed. People shitting on him here for getting married is a little weird. He's got a kid whom he is clearly super invested in and the general consensus is if you want a kid, the best way to do it is with a mother and father in the same house.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 03:12 PM
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I find if I'm in a not-so-hot mood but still wanna get out there and talk to people, listening to shit that makes me laugh just makes me feel good. Listening to Bill Burr's podcast (everything the man says is hilarious), alpha male strategies on youtube, whatever. Consistent laughter right before the doing of the thing will just get you naturally smiling and feeling good.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:11 AM
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Agree and amplify "What makes you say that?!" begin touching her everywhere, grabbing her cheeks, hair, arms at that point she should be giggling like a schoolgirl
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:01 AM
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Idk how old you are buddy but I felt what you're feeling pretty hard from the ages of like 17-22. Doesn't seem so long in the grand scheme of things (I'm 24) but at the time it felt excruciating and like it would never stop. Finding the red pill, lifting, and putting in work to my projects has helped a lot. I was very, very self conscious but also outgoing which was a weird combination. People definitely looked at me funny and treated me like "the weird guy" and every night before bed I would en…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:24 AM
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What does this have to do with TRP concepts?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:30 AM
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I'm curious what lines you use. Sometimes girls have little or no info in their bio so I have nothing to go off of. I just messaged a girl I matched with "What do you do for fun?" yuck
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:07 AM
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yeah i call people buddy all the time as "equals" and if they did the same I wouldn't think twice
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:25 AM
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Her, all giggling and coy: "What do you think of my lipstick?" Me: "Well it'll look better once it's all over my body."
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:20 AM
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"You're sooo young!" "Guess that makes you a pedophile, baby. I oughtta call the cops"
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:50 PM
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You're an idiot. She's gonna go fuck someone else.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:04 PM
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Listen man you keep asking us what to do and we keep telling you the same shit and you keep saying you can't do that "cause of your ego" or some bullshit. Get your head out of your ass, read the sidebar and heed our advice or just get outta here. NONE of this shit when dealing with women is logical. You're NOT self depreciating because you're 29, obviously you're not old. You're literally, factually, objectively not. She knows this. But she gives you shit to test your frame. So for you to sit an…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:57 PM
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I've actually heard that it is true that women notice arms, chest and shoulders first
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:52 PM
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She's not "lying" she's "giving you shit" and you respond to people "giving shit" (aka shit tests) by agreeing and amplifying. Always. Maybe disagreeing and amplifying if it calls for it. Try pressure flipping too "Old huh? Guess that means you're just SUPER into old guys. Didn't know you were such a gold digger. Call me Hugh Hefner baby." shit like that. Practice pressure flipping more. I've started incorporating it when I run out of agree and amplifies...When you put them on the defensive it t…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 06:37 PM
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Always agree and amplify. "Oh that reminds me I've gotta stop by the old folks home and say hi to some friends." "Yeah my scrotum hangs down practically to my knees, it's getting pretty crazy." "Huh? What'd you say?" "YOURE SO OLD" "Oh sorry my hearing aid wasn't on..." etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 06:35 PM
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I've said it on here before but I'll say it again: Agree and amplify has completely changed my life and all my social interactions for the better. Like most redpill concepts, it should be applied outside of just women. You'll find it's much easier to riff on subjects and just have fun, teasing other folks and finding their boundaries, holding your frame...It's pretty cool stuff. Once you flip that switch of "Oh I need to defend myself to save face" to "I'll just joke along with them and amplify …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 06:31 PM
3

i love biting titties tbh. it seems to always work. just go from mouth to neck to chest to nipples.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:07 AM
9

literally stop
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:01 AM
1

What's DEERing? It's not in the sidebar and I keep seeing it repeated. Don't ever explain responses?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:58 PM
1

I did change the subject and then she brought it up again later. She kept bringing it up. I knew she was fishing for my validation but I couldn't keep giving her joking answers over and over...
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:42 PM
1

Always assume attraction and escalate, always. When you get to the point that you're making out, assume that she wants your mouth on her tits. When you get to that point, assume she wants her hand on your cock. When you get to that point, assume she wants to have sex. Keep going until she says no, then say "that's fine" and back off.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:51 PM
1

Never listen to what they say. They're crazy. They'll say things, and they'll tell their friends those things, but they won't necessarily feel that way. She's saying she's mad at you to get you to break frame and try and chase her. Never lose frame. ​ I was on my first date with this chick (who became my FWB) and I had already been grabbing her ass that whole date, etc. When we got out of the bar I reeled back and smacked her ass harder than I've smacked anything in my life. She told me she was …
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:45 PM
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Dude what? Just have sex with her. You can have sex with girls and still focus on your mission. What are you gay?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:16 PM
1

Yep this had to be said Remember this for future girls, OP. Just tease, joke, agree and amplify, pass shit tests, BE INTERESTING and she'll be into you.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:12 PM
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Just moan and say anything "You feel so good" "God damn it you're so sexy" whatever I've had a girl ask me to describe what her pussy feels like right then and there (spoilers: warm and wet and tight) Especially if you haven't given her any verbal validation before then, you telling her in that moment that she's so beautiful and sexy with her hair spread across the pillow like that... She'll fucking love it. Remember women's hamsters run wild. You not giving her any nonsexual validation will alw…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:55 AM
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My initial reaction is disagree and amplify. "No that's not true... I also wanna make out with you, eat your pussy, stick my dick in your mouth--You're selling me a bit short here" And of course say it with a grin of amused mastery. If she's a good plate she'll laugh and probably touch you too. I'm sure there's good agree and amplify too
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 03:34 PM
1

I agree with all of this
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:00 AM
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It's in the shit test compendium on the sidebar or somewhere around here. Say stuff like "this week?" "tonight?" "oh I don't really keep count anymore" It's a shit test. The answer to 90% of shit tests is agree and amplify. After banging a broad she asked me "how much do you masturbate?" "oh a healthy amount... You know seven or eight times a day" she laughed and that was that.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:10 AM
1

You should post this in the redpillwomen sub. They'd be more help for sure
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:06 AM
1

Because the feminine imperative says for it to be that way. Boys grow up watching blue pilled movies and being told that a woman is a total catch if she's even remotely pretty and feminine. Boys are taught to pedestalize women and to make them happy, and do whatever they say and don't ruffle feathers or stand up for themselves. The conditioning goes very, very deep.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:15 PM
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It's funny to me that she came right out and said something so overtly, when women tend to be covert. I'm surprised she didn't just act all sulky/weird when you didn't make the decisions.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:57 AM
1

Texting you, asking how your day is, what your'e up to. Don't respond or give short answers instead.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:40 AM
2

I couldn't make it past your symbol chart, what on earth? Just make up fake names for people
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:09 AM
1

That doesn't sound like a "master apprentice" relationship to me. Sounds like he's your boss and he pisses you off. Master-apprentice relationships are symbiotic. The apprentice gets to learn and hang out with a cool mentor who has tons of shit to say, and the master gets to share his knowledge and feed his ego a bit.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:36 PM
1

Bluepillers gonna bluepill. 99% of dudes go their entire lives living in Bluepillers relationships and appeasing their wives at every turn because "happy wife is happy life" nonsense. Maybe you can help him along. Drop subtle hints about how you attract women or what works well. But of course remember the number one rule is to not talk about red pill.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:01 PM
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You could stop following a religion that tells you you're immoral for having premarital sex. Or you could ignore that part entirely and still be a "Christian", just not a "good one"
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:03 AM
1

Get this shit outta asktrp
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:21 PM
1

Every woman in trpwomen call their SO "captain". So she could be re spilled or maybe she picked it up elsewhere.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:01 PM
3

She is a girl
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:26 PM
1

Agree and amplify, hold frame... Cmon dude you sound like a pussy. What they're doing doesn't sound any different than "locker room" talk from dudes, it just happens to be a bunch of harpies.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 10:01 PM
2

If you aren't reading great literature because the authors are "blue pilled" then you need to get a fucking grip.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:05 PM
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Probably because the incel subreddit got closed down and they came flooding here...
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 01:46 PM
3

There is a fine line between being witty/sarcastic (busting people's balls, too) and just being a straight up asshole. Generally speaking, the easiest way to avoid this trap is to say all of your sarcasm with a genuine smile (look up the difference between a "real" smile and a fake one). The only bad things that happen then--unless you really cross a line--are that people don't laugh or they just think you're giving them a bit of lip. But I wouldn't stop. I would use these experiences to help ca…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:55 AM
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Read literature. Steinbeck, Nabokov, Tolstoy, McCarthy, David Foster Wallace, Kesey, Dostoevsky, Bukowski, Fante, Raymond Carver, Dumas. You'll experience some of the best writing there's ever been and you'll never look back.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:17 PM
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Yeah after reading Rollo's articles up above I'm now attempted to play along with these women. The last time this happened though here's what happened Me: "Oh you must be a libra" (don't know wtf that is or what it means) Her: "No but that's close, I'm actually a gemini. See, gemini es and libras are similar because blah blah blah" And then she just fucking talked my ear off about astrology for ten minutes. She said if I looked up the exact minute I was born and where, that everything about my l…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:48 AM
1

I had a 24 year old girl tell me if you look at the clock at 11:11 it means you'll get good luck, and if you look at a clock at 12:34 it means some progress moving you forward will happen in your day. I used to call them out on the bullshit but they always get genuinely offended, so now I smile and nod, and if they ask me what I think I just say "I don't really believe in that stuff, it all seems like superstition to me." and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:24 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:22 AM
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Yep I agree. I've started giving men shit and agreeing and amplifying their shit. Careful though... With certain dudes and around alcohol this could get you into fights. Even if you joke and say "I'm just bustin your balls man"
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:37 PM
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Agree with this completely. I think we all need some leisure activities that aren't always working toward our goals...Otherwise we'd never know any movies, TV shows, whatever. Just be careful. Ideally your time spent making/doing is more than your time spent consuming, and ideally your time spent consuming is beneficial in some way I. E. watching tutorials/lectures on YouTube, reading good literature/nonfiction, expanding your musical/movie/video game knowledge/pallette. We talk a lot about cutt…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:27 PM
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Doesn't matter. Agree/amplify, hold frame, lift. Shaming you is just one way that people (not just women) try to control you, so you have to let it not bother you.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 05:12 AM
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The saying that gets thrown around is that you are the sum of the five people you hang out with most. So are your five closest friends people you want to be like? At least in some regards, not every single one... Nobody's perfect.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:29 PM
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No benefits? How about just getting to know your neighbors and pallin' around? How about having fun conversation with some people? How about meeting some folks (I assume there will be more at this bonfire?) and expanding your social circle? What about the possibility that there will be other women there that you can game, and maybe that girl will even talk you up? This whole TRP thing is about improving your SMV. The worst thing that comes out of this is you go and don't have a good time...Oh we…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:19 AM
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Doesn't matter what she feels. Hold frame, agree and amplify and move on. Congratulations: You now have two girls fighting for you. Stay in your frame and they'll claw each other to get to you.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:31 PM
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The truth is that a lot of life is doing things you don't want to do. I just brushed my teeth. Didn't really want to but I have to. I spend hours making music/producing/practicing. Sounds fun, doesn't it? Not really. I have to make myself do it. Sometimes I'm in the moment and it feels good and I enjoy it, sometimes I wake up and all I want to do is make music the whole day, but most of the time it's work. The thing is that it's work I would rather be doing over other work. Even things I enjoy d…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:07 AM
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I figured I was overthinking it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:34 PM
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Just make sexual jokes when it's natural to make sexual jokes. You don't "transition to sexual convo" it just sort of happens. For instance I was flirting with this girl who was going to sing a song into a microphone for me, and I told her she'd have to hold it cause I didn't have a stand. I said "You better have a good grip" and she giggled and said "yeah trust me I do" then I said "jesus you've got a dirty mind I didn't mean it like that" (even though I did) and we were both laughing about it.…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:55 AM
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I've thought this for a loooong time too. I remember when my biydd and I were like 19 and we'd go on dates with girls and we'd say "literally the only thing they do in their free time is watch Netflix" never have any hobbies, interests, things they're improving about themselves/learning. Literally every guy I meet regardless of age has SOMETHING he's doing that takes up his time and makes him smarter or better like learning an instrument, listening to history podcasts, reading books, playing a s…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:36 AM
1

Well the day of you make sure the date is still on. If she doesn't text back then it's not on. If she says she'll meet you then it's on. If she's running late hopefully she'll text you. If she says it's on and you're waiting a half hour and she doesn't say anything then I'd bail at that point, but I don't think that'd happen. Generally speaking if a girl is into you she'll say it's on and mean it, or if she's not into you she'll just not confirm it's happening. I don't think I've ever had a girl…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:18 AM
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I'm not op but I still wonder how do you put your foot down and let her know the rules without coming across as a mateguarding beta? How do you do that without losing frame? I know the goal is to be so high smv she won't act like that but in the meantime on the way there...
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:53 PM
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She laughed (and so did the other guy in the room) and then she went into the bathroom. I don't know why I decided to change it in my story but my actual words were "you got a big butt" which is maybe a bit more playful and less crude than ass? I said it with a smirk of course. And we had already been flirting a lot by this point.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 10:54 PM
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Yep 100%. I still get performance anxiety if it's a big gig or if I'm just going up by myself with a guitar. I heard from the son of Roy Rogers that Roy would even throw up before going on stage. But I find if I get to a gig and I feel that way, the best thing for me is to just start talking to people and joking around, projecting an air of "I got this, people are here to see me, they're going to love it" and it really helps. Get friendly with the sound guy, the barista, whoever. But for the lov…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 08:18 PM
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I was being a bit hyperbolic :P But yeah, it all turned out fine or I wouldn't have gone out with her yesterday. Still thanks for the tip. It can be hard to remember.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 07:20 PM
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Yes I'm 24, so we're about the same age. No, I don't have FOMO because the way I prioritize my life is that my time and energy spent on myself is more important than going out and (possibly) getting tail (and spending money on it no matter the outcome). I do also "go out" just not to clubs (because my parents are in the city) and I keep it to once a week. I actually just went out to a local coffee/liquor place near me where I've performed before. I do it to go and talk to all sorts of people--no…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:22 AM
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I'm doing it. I moved out for four years and moved back last June. It feels weird. But having the money feels very, very nice. Don't lose sight of your goals. I work a part time minimum wage job and do freelance gigs involving music, sound and copywriting. Living with my parents affords me more time to work on these skills (practicing, mixing, producing, whatever else) as well as the money to spend on these things (microphones, software, other gear). It's good to know that in the future, wheneve…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:36 AM
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Dude YouTube is good. I've learned so much stuff from there. All I do is watch tutorials and listen to lectures/debates from college professors. I did recently unsubscribe from any news channels, though. I used to spend too much time on that. So maybe just tailor your subscriptions so that even in your leisure time or your commute to work you're LEARNING and growing.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 05:20 AM
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Reading fiction is great. It can show you a lot of depth to humanity if the characters are well written, leading you to empathise more with people and maybe better understand some traits that you didn't understand before. Also just reading good prose is so stimulating. Non fiction typically doesn't have colorful prose. ​ Like something like Lolita can only exist as a work of fiction/as a book. Same with something like Infinite Jest. It's a really great medium and if you're at all concerned with …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:32 AM
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I agree that two people can be living together and not married and raise children, but also there is a sort of binding that marriage makes so that you're less likely to run off. At least that is the hope. As you say, divorce rape is pretty bad now. You're right government handouts hurt minority communities, but they especially incentive women to be single mothers. That is the real problem. It's not literal "forced marriage." You've misunderstood. I'm not making that assumption at all. The only "…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 06:01 PM
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Why does it have to be all or nothing though? I agree, women will never give up the right to vote and never leave the workforce and always have access to birth control. But why do they have to slut it up? What about those women popping up on YouTube talking about being traditionally feminine, saving yourself, etc.? Is it at all possible their movement can grow, just as (we perceive) ours has?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 05:11 PM
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If marriage is not needed for kids then please explain toe how the black community's poverty levels and incarceration levels have only increased as their out-of-wedlock births increased. It's something like 3/4 of black kids are born in fatherless homes now, whereas in the 50s and 60s it was less than 1/4 (and they were better off)
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 05:07 PM
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Then what do you propose we do for future boys who will lack fathers and grow up on adhd meds, act out aggressively, not grasp masculinity. How do we solve the boy crisis?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 03:26 AM
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I agree it is, in its current state, a shit deal. The only enforcers of monogamy are wall-approaching or post-wall women. That is for men, as you've said, a shit deal. But maybe women like Heather (and Karen and others) can get other young women to see that they've really dug themselves into a hole and they need to figure it out fast. Quit fucking around in your youth or you will be damaged goods and price yourself out of the market later. ​ But yes, that's why we're here. We don't want a shit d…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 08:52 PM
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I really don't think there's anything you can do. It's his life, he's head over heels for this woman. I agree with you it probably won't end well, but making a big deal of it and sticking your nose in might cause him to resent you, and might cause her to as well. Believe me, I tried to give advice to my best friend about a family situation and he wouldn't hear any of it. I know you must feel loyal to him and you just want to help and be a good friend, but I don't think he'll see it that way. And…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:01 PM
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That last line is pretty good, I'll have to remember that.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:12 PM
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Seriously he starts off the post with "most millenials are raise by single mothers" really? Over 50%? Come on.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 04:29 AM
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This is a good topic worth exploring. Yes, 20 is young. Very, very few leaders are 20. You will learn so much that soon (as in the next ten years or so) you will become far more confident in your opinions, your actions and yourself. You're on your way. As for "How do people do it?" well a good leader takes initiative based on what he believes is right, whether he believes that from experience or knowledge or just gut feeling. Then, he executes on that and decides to make it definite. If it turns…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:03 AM
1

How noticeable are the scars? Given that you'd probably need decent light to see them (I. E. when you're not in bed with a man, I. E. after he's gotten to know you more and you two are more comfortable together) chances are he would already know you have breast implants, right? Or are you just planning to lie to potential LTRs about this? Unless the scar is particularly ugly and out of place, I'm sure you're fine. A guy MIGHT have a problem with your fake boobs (though I really wonder how many a…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 08:31 PM
1

I just listened to some videos of John Hamm and Tom Hiddleston and I wouldn't describe them as monotone... They have very natural phrasing and their voice rises and lowers in pitch where you would expect it to. Not by a lot, maybe a couple tones at the most. Might be an interesting experiment... What's the average "range" of most conversational voices. My guess would be about a fifth or so.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 02:49 PM
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Well you don't speak from your diaphragm. But what your teacher was on about (and which I was gonna add to my post) was to let the air/breath come from the diaphragm. You should never inhale shallowly/into your lungs/with your chest. The breath should always come from the diaphragm/stomach area. ​ Making sure of this has helped my voice not to crack. Any time my voice cracks, I find there's a lack of air in my diaphragm and I'm kind of squeezing it out. It's always good to have a repository down…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 01:19 AM
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I was literally just thinking about making a thread about this! I've taken vocal lessons and do some singing. Speaking with your chest voice consistently and never appeasing the other party with upspeak or higher pitched voice is very helpful in asserting yourself and being authoritative. I work customer service and my boss, who is the store owner, does the same thing. It's a very commanding quality.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 12:04 AM
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Three months isn't long at all, bud. You're doing the right things, just keep doing them. Doesn't sound like you want monk mode, so don't do it. Do those things, and be sure to go out and approach and game women at the same time. Go on Tinder and Bumble and maybe score a few dates.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:00 PM
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Practice agree and amplify on anyone and everything.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:40 AM
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If people give you shit agree and amplify. You'll soon see that many social interactions are really a series of shit tests, and once you pass enough of them they'll stop coming. Be sure to give them, too.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:37 AM
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I like it. They run off the idea that women are gatekeepers of sex and men are gatekeepers of commitment. So they're telling other women to vet men for LTRs by not sleeping with them too early, etc. They also discuss raising their RMV by doing traditionally feminine things like cooking, cleaning, sewing, deferring to the will of their captains. They cherish femininity and recognize that it's generally lost in today's dating world. I got banned for making a thread asking about shit tests from the…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:34 AM
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Should've agreed and amplified to both of those. Always agree and amplify. "Oh I bet you're inexperienced" "About that which hole does it go in again? I left my manual at home" "How many girlfriends" is a classic. Always say that you were just with one, or try and count and lose track, or shrug it off and say you forget and can't keep up, whatever. She is testing you for pre selection. "Oh other girls haven't been with him? Why should I be then?" or the opposite "wow lots of girls? He must be wo…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:09 AM
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Go and game the other girls
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:15 AM
1

This is just bizarre. At this point I'm wondering if it's a troll. I mean it can't be real.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:46 AM
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Not sure what you mean. These are genuine questions I'd like answers to. I ask them here because at TRP and askTRP we're in a bubble as to why women perform shit tests, how to pass them, etc. I'd like to hear women's perspectives who are RPA, hence why I asked these questions on this subreddit. If you need an explanation of what shit tests are then go and read some sidebars or look them up elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 08:40 PM
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I've also moved back in and while my experience isn't as dramatic as yours, it's similar. Both of my parents are retired (they had me at a very late age) and my dad has always been the "yes, dear" "we'll eat wherever you want" man but I can tell my mom just doesn't respect him. Plus the fact that he's obese (though she ain't exactly fit neither). But every time she talks about him, it's nothing positive. It's pretty disheartening. Always "He has the TV so loud" or "He made such and such for dinn…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 08:36 PM
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Tinder is hard with talking. You feel this weird pressure to be clever and funny but at the same time a lot of girls just don't agree/amplify and go with the flow. Plus trying to be clever demonstrates how hard you're trying to impress her and it's just... Weird and lame. Whatever happens, try to set up a date as soon as possible. Literally only send her three or four messages at the most before you set it up. You both matched for a reason and she probably wants you to take the initiative. I use…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:49 AM
1

https://songsandvideogames.wordpress.com/2017/05/25/david-foster-wallace-and-sentimentality/ You may enjoy that. I wrote it over a year ago when I was super into DFW. Also this may sound crazy, but if you like all those books I listed, you should watch the TV show Lost if you haven't. It's really, really good. The writing, characterization and pacing are unbelievable. It gets kind of a bad rap for some reason (and it certainly has its faults during a couple seasons) but I was hooked beginning to…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:37 AM
1

If you like Buk read John Fante if you haven't already. Ask the Dust is better than any Bukowski book, and I'm sure he'd say as much himself. You can tell he worshipped the man.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:25 AM
1

With no exaggeration intended my opinion is that it is one of the greatest works of art of the 20th century. It is just so masterful its almost hard to believe a single person wrote it. I've read great books since then (about a year and a half ago) but none of them are anything like it.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:23 AM
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It will almost always lead to an argument. If someone mentions anything about Trump or anything at all I just do a little head movement say "yeah well..." then change the subject. Unless you know for certain they're a very reasonable person and you can discuss ideas calmly and thoughtfully. My oneitis some years back, she was a staunch Catholic and on our first date we talked about how women need men, gender roles, how feminism has ruined things, etc. But I knew we could go down this route just …
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:32 PM
2

There's a man on YouTube named Paul Elam who, for all intents and purposes, is the father of MGTOW. But he's been in a committed, non-married relationship for a decade and a half or so. Sure it's possible. Listen to his videos if you haven't yet. He's rather insightful.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:28 PM
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Thanks dude gonna message her that now
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:12 PM
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I'd also like to know. Tried to set up a tinder date with this chick on Monday and she was like "maybe I can do that. We'll see. I've got things happening right now blah blah". So far I just haven't responded.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:27 PM
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Dostoevsky and Tolstoy are real great. Not exactly masculine (though notes from Underground is) but really just fantastic works all around. If you read just one Russian work make it Brothers Karamazov. Bukowski is gritty and masculine. Start with his first novel, Post Office, and if you like it go from there reading in order. I read Fight Club just recently and it's certainly a modern classic. Lolita is one of the prettiest and most horrific books you'll read. Nabokov's command of the English la…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 05:42 PM
1

Yeah I know it's extremely unlikely but I'm hamstering like a crazy person. I really didn't try to. She was sucking me off and then got on top and put it in. I shoved her off right away and grabbed a condom. My buddy said he had a similar freak out because he's uncircumcised, went back for seconds or something and then realized that his foreskin could've kept his semen alive. Said he texted the woman like crazy and she never even responded. He made it out alright though.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:47 PM
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There was a decent post in TRP a few days ago that was a case against monk mode. Basically, if you're staying in and not actively socializing/keeping up your game, you're gonna lose it, and it's a good thing to practice. You can still focus on self improvement AND go out and meet people. Not even necessarily DUDES but just folks.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 11:44 PM
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Agree and amplify taught me how to handle/joke about any social situation. And if the joke falls kinda flat, just smile and roll with it. They'll probably smile and shake their head or something. Went from not knowing a girl to having sex with her in about an hour and a half or two hours. Fastest thats ever happened. Also the first time I got laid in over three years. I don't talk to girls like their shit don't stink anymore.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:18 PM
2

Thanks dude. I plan to do exactly that. I turned down a date today just cause I decided it wasn't worth it and I'm in the middle of setting up others. I can't see myself getting oneitis with her because I'm really just not that emotionally attracted to her. I also do legitimately have to take the weekend off because I'm busy, so it's not possible for me to see her the next few days.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:38 AM
1

You're acting like a girl. Be a man, make a decision, and fucking do it with confidence and solid frame. That's all that matters.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:54 AM
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Loved it. She has hours of unedited interviews on her YouTube channel too. Cassie Jaye is a Saint, and the men's rights movement needs more attention. Of course it's nothing like this subreddit but that's fine. It got me into Paul Elam, and he has some great YouTube videos.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:44 AM
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"I don't want to be his gf""He knows I was considering a relationship" You sound very confused and he's probably done dealing with you. It sounds to me like a. you wanna keep riding the cock carousel (see: he wanted exclusivity with me but I was reluctant) but b. you wanna have your cake and eat it too (see: "i want to keep seeing you and feel good/loved, but don't want to miss the chance to date a Chadder man") c. as a result his friends have probably told him to not deal with you, and move on,…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 08:39 PM
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Well for starters you could not text him that you don't want to keep dating. "Of course this isn't true." And how's he supposed to know that? You don't want to be his girlfriend but he specifically said that's what he wanted. Why would he continue to chase you if you're not interested in the same thing he's interested in? If I was him I'd next you and try my luck with other women. Wouldn't be surprised if he's already done that, which is why he's not texting you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 08:17 PM
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Why was this post removed?! It was a perfectly valid discussion topic. If it was because she wasn't very nice to TRP, shame on us. We should be able to critique freely.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:40 PM
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I don't think they have issues because they like being treated like crap, I just think they haven't quite grown up yet or maybe they don't understand their own nature. What TRP does is use women's nature to their advantage. That man is with other women? He must have high SMV because he's been pre-selected, I should try and get with him. This man is ignoring my texts? He must be busy (maybe with other women) and so I should try harder to get him to want me. This man isn't afraid to say no to me w…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:39 PM
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You're also posting on TRPwomen, something 99.9% of women don't do. I think it's safe to say you're at least unique :P If I met you irl and found out you played five instruments I would certainly be attracted to you (assuming you're decent looking) and be genuinely interested in getting to know you. I'm sure we'd have a lot to talk about. I also play multiple instruments, songwrite and produce music :) Be careful with the solipsism here (another TRP principle you'd do well to learn). "Well I wan…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:05 PM
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Can't you just agree and amplify? If your friend was giving you shit for your stutter (cause you know, guys give each other shit for everything) wouldn't you just agree and amplify? Show that you don't care about it and it amuses you? Remember shit tests are literally "giving someone shit."
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:52 PM
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Agreed, good post. It also doesn't help TRP that the incels subreddit got shut down, so where else are they gonna go? Then they start flocking to MGTOW and that place ends up a shit show, too.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 03:43 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. We've known this for a very long time, then feminism came around and tore it all to shreds, saying that women want to have as much free and libidinous sex as men do. Turns out this just isn't very fulfulling (for either sex) but that's not the new narrative we're sold. The great irony of all this is that feminists, in their never-ending quest for "female empowerment", have actually stripped women of one of their most powerf…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 03:00 PM
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Yep
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:50 PM
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go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:54 AM
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Wanting an LTR is not okay?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:11 AM
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Well listen man. She became insanely attracted to you because of your game, your frame and your gains, right? So keep it up. Women want commitment. Head over to the redpillwomen subreddit to get a glimpse at what that all looks like. She WANTS you to want to lock her down, and to be exclusive to you, because you're a high-value man. So just don't change anything. Don't be afraid of losing her--one sniff of that and things may come crashing down. Keep doing what you did and recognize you've got a…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:21 PM
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There's a great thread over at the TRP subreddit about how to game on Tinder. It's one of the top posts for the past year if you sort it and find it that way. Be sure to read that and apply it (don't swipe right on everything, pictures are important). Yeah make a tinder. What have you got to lose? 15 minutes a day swiping left and right? Sometimes it can feel dry and shitty, but I've gotten three dates from it in the past two weeks, which is better than zero dates in the past two weeks. One happ…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:08 PM
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Dude it's okay. You're just insanely attracted to this chick. Get into an LTR with her and keep holding frame, keep improving, keep passing shit tests, etc.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:04 PM
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Yeah it's not a switch that you can just flip, especially if you aren't getting laid. I'd recommend going through my post history and reading my FR over at TRP. I ended up cold approaching a total of like 12-15 girls that night (really not that many, considering there were at least 100) and didn't hit it off with most of them. But I accomplished what I set out to do: Go out and talk to people and deal with approach anxiety/rejection.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:29 PM
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Abundance mentality will help with this. And I understand you're living in the reality of a scarcity mindset, but think about it this way: When you go out, and talk to women (try it and do it, at bars, coffee places, wherever), think to yourself "There are a lot of women here, if I fail with this one, or if I don't like her that much, I'll just talk to another one." It's pretty freeing. Then apply that to how many women are in your city, and you start to care a lot less. It all takes practice. A…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:19 PM
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We all have to pay our dues. If dealing with a shitty job for a year means you have a better one in another year, and on and on, it's totally worth it. As long as you don't hate where you'll end up.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:05 PM
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Jesus dude. Just to be clear, you met with the girl outside of work? Or these girls decided to just haze you for no reason? Sounds like there's a lot missing here...
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:40 PM
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Yep I agree. But that's not what people think when they read "happy wife, happy life" and now men have been trained to not be leaders but instead to defer to whatever their wife wants. Maybe this next generation will be different. We'll see how far redpill gets.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 06:04 PM
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In all fairness everyone's moods are contagious, generally speaking...I imagine if the husband is feeling down, the wife can help him feel up, and vice versa. The problem with the "happy wife, happy life" maxim is it basically boils down to "everything has to be about her, and she needs to get what she wants." It's encapsulated in the classic "What do you want for dinner?" the man asks, and the woman says "I don't know, anything is fine" expecting her man to lead and pick something, and then he …
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 05:45 PM
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These are good questions that the gals here could probably answer better than I could. The way I see it, through the lens of game theory, is that if I buy you things I'm treating you like you're special and I've already lost. From the word go I'm in debt and I've put you on a pedestal. Not only that, but me buying you things doesn't typically (and shouldn't) have an effect on whether or not you'll sleep with me. I.e. the outcome will be the same, regardless of if I buy you stuff or not, so why b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 04:02 PM
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Yep you're right, most guys don't have game. Most married husbands live the motto of "Happy wife, happy life" and "yes dear" and all the gynocentric stuff that women just plain aren't attracted to, regardless of what sitcoms and other media tell them. This is why we all need the redpill lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 03:52 PM
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Their desire for bachelorhood is a turn on. This gets the pre-selection part of your nature running wild and makes you want to get with him. This is why the men over at redpill/asktrp preach abundance mentality like it's a fucking religion.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 03:04 PM
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And if another, more Chad-like man comes around are you going to branch swing to him, too? Hamster away your current relationship like you did the last?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 03:03 PM
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What's happening as I see it is a lack of application of redpill concepts. You're not over the first man because he's a confirmed bachelor and probably didn't treat you all that well. Not that he treated you like shit perse, just that he didn't treat you like you were special. The second man "took care of you" and treated you like a little princess, which is going to lead to a lack of attraction because if he thinks you're the catch--and not the other way around--why would you want to be with hi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 02:59 PM
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Rule 1 of redpill is you don't talk about redpill. What this basically means is that you take redpill concepts and you explain them to your friends, coworkers etc when the discussion comes up, but you don't frame them as redpill. You just frame them as logical, rational ideas. What we preach here are things people are inclined to hear, but they don't want to be told that it's a certain way of thinking they're unaccustomed to. Just like men are starved for Jordan Peterson's opinions on responsibi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 05:04 AM
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Masculine and child-like are two polar opposite things, sister ;p I find that posture and general holding of oneself helps a lot. Chest out, shoulders back and down, neck straight, it all emphasizes the physique so naturally. Speaking with your chest voice is very sexy. Same goes for men. I know a girl who would open beer bottles with her teeth, play video games and generally hang with the guys and talk shit. But she was very in tune with her femininity. I think it was her thoughtfulness. She wo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 04:25 AM
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this advice is better than mine. ignore mine lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/18 09:15 PM
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Screw the bitch. Don't care what she thinks. If she's influencing your husband I'm not sure what to do about that. You both got into the marriage for the same reasons and with babymaking in mind... If he makes enough to support both of you it's none of her God damn business how many kids you have, or where you shop, or if you stay at home. She is right about the divorce thing though. If it ever happens and you hadn't been working, he'd be pretty fucked financially.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/18 09:09 PM
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Women don't gain smv or rmv by having better careers that make them more money. If you want a captain it's not necessary. If you want to be by yourself and live independently then go for it. You also seem to not like that he will make less than you, but 85k a year is a lot. I mean, that's top 10% at least, depending on where you live. You're going to be pricing yourself out of the market very soon. Recognize your hypergamy. Youll be making 100k a year but want a man who makes more than you, and …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/18 05:48 PM
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My theory is that being able to take risks and put yourself out there into the world with reckless abandon is a high SMV trait. I know that for me, personally, I'm much more attracted to women who are willing to just try anything and learn and go with the flow than I am to women who are more closed off and won't try new things. This could be because I'm particularly high in openness...But I realize most people aren't as high in openness as I am, so maybe they're not as attracted to it. ​ But sti…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:29 PM
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Approach with anything. Nice shirt. First time? God this music is so rad. What beer are you drinking?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:06 AM
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Hey dude. I made a field report over at TRP (which I probably can't link here... Search my history or look at field reports) where I asked a woman to teach me how to country style partner dance. We had a real great time and she seemed pretty into me. I think I generally did good at holding frame, though I failed to escalate and pull her, as well as maybe failing a shit test via text later. But the actual learning to dance with her part was fun and she seemed way into it. As I say in the FR, I th…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:24 AM
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From the man's perspective, no, it's not bad. Because then we get women to do whatever we want whenever we want because they can't stand the thought of losing us. But for you, sister, it's important to understand that the reason you paid 300 bucks for a plane ticket and bought him a watch on his bday was because you were terrified of losing him. And you were terrified because he went out of his way to show you the abundance of women (abundance mentality, pre-selection) that he could be with at a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 08:23 PM
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Sounds like some serious dread game, or a totally careless, incompetent boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 05:45 PM
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Peterson is certainly a rambler, and he wrote the book with that intent, but a "cycle of self improvement masturbation" it is not. Unless you also think TRP is the same thing?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:33 AM
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Next him
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:54 AM
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You're hurting her in the long run.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 02:49 AM
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We all do. It's a neverending process. I also wouldn't talk about music theory at a party lol.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 02:43 AM
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You remind me of me when I was younger. All I could talk about was music and/or video games. I can still talk about those things at length. ​ It's good to have passions and things you know very, very well. It's an attractive trait regardless of sex. Getting other people as into your subject as you are is another trait that's worth developing. If someone is super passionate and telling me things I didn't know before then I'm into it. I'm sure you've experienced this with guys you've dated. It pro…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:59 AM
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Relationship Marketplace Value. I mention it in one of the other comments. Men are the gatekeepers of commitments, women are the gatekeepers of sex. If you get the interview, and withold the sex from the man (which is what this subreddit preaches--and rightfully so), and you have worked on yourself enough to be interesting and worth a relationship/commitment, he's going to stick with you because he genuinely likes you. Then, once he rewards you with commitment, you reward him with sex. How he pe…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:49 AM
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You shouldn't ever wonder if you're boring to talk to. You should know whether or not you're an interesting person, have a lot to say about a wide range of subjects, etc. This is redpill theory 101. Being a good conversationalist is a very important skill, imo. You should be able to talk about books, movies, music, politics, sports, working out, food, art, etc. Not extensively (though maybe a few things), but you should be able to hold your own no matter the subject, generally speaking. I'm lack…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:43 AM
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That's all hippie dippie, peace and love stuff. Sounds nice and pretty on paper, but honey--it ain't reality. Victor Wooten said "I believe inside everyone is a story and a song." I agree with that. Everyone has something to say and I guess that's "beauty." But when we're talking about dating? SMV? RMV? Making a good life for yourself? Sorry, but that's just a whole bunch of feelgood mumbo jumbo concocted by self help authors to make people feel good just the way they are without any effort. Tha…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:38 AM
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And this is why RPW preach Relationship Marketplace Value. Sexual Marketplace Value is the looks of the woman, the thing that gets you the "interview" or, if you're all for it, the lay or what have you. But if you're a pretty woman and haven't had to work on your RMV (see: Cooking, femininity, hobbies such as reading, drawing, dancing, acting, going to the gym, etc., things that make you an interesting person) then you won't make it in an LTR with the man. This sub is pretty spot on about that. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:34 AM
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Oh come on that's BS and you know it! You're just trying to be nice. You know what a pretty woman looks like, right? You know what a pretty woman with a nice rack and a nice ass looks like, right? You know what an ugly, fat woman looks like, right? Who's more attractive: Melissa McCarthy or Taylor Swift? Don't tell me you "don't know" :P I'm a dude and I can say "that guy is ugly" or "that guy needs a better haircut" or "that guy should lose weight" or "wow that guy's muscular as hell", etc. Wom…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:24 AM
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It was John Hamm lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 01:11 AM
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I mean what you told her is right. Is she not that pretty? Could she stand to lose some weight? How is she otherwise, personality wise? Sitting around waiting for things to happen is not a very attractive trait, male/female. ​ But yes, pretty girls do tend to get what they want out of life. People treat you more nicely, give you discounts, you get positive attention from males pretty consistently, etc. The lefties call this "privilege" (though never in the context of women). ​ EDIT: Being in you…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 12:53 AM
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Get him 12 rules for life, why not? It's very readable. Listen to some podcasts in a similar vein with him, like if you're ever driving him around or something. Younger brothers want to do what their older brothers do, they want a reason to like the same things.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:48 PM
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What do you do when they talk about astrology? Just smile and nod? I'm not going to pretend to believe in something I don't, but I also understand that deliberately insulting her beliefs can be a huge turnoff. Think I'll make a thread about this actually, over at asktrp
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 05:11 PM
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It's hard dude if there is no real abundance. That's why the folks here say you gotta cultivate that abundance. And I honestly did get a bit of oneitis for that woman in the short time we interacted. Like I said, all the other girls I talked to just weren't as fun/easy going. I had so many options, and reached out, but still.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 04:09 PM
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Thanks. I was quite pleased with the prose myself... Almost like a little short story. You're right. I'm aware of "always be escalating" but haven't calibrated it with meeting girls at bars/in groups.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 04:08 PM
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I love him and used to follow him religiously, but he's definitely not red pilled in manners of relations. He's devoutly married and recommends the same for everyone else (enforced monogamy). But that's also in the context of raising a family, making a better community, etc. I could hear him talk about religion (with Sam Harris too) all day. He says women are hypergamous and tells men to take on responsibility and find meaning and work out, go out into the world and be courageous. He then says t…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:38 AM
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Thanks dude. Yeah I figure might as well talk to everyone, and if I can help a guy out why not. There are loads of women. No use competing.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 06:33 AM
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That place actually did have beginners night. When I had told someone I had just learned to dance, they asked me "Oh did you go to the class here earlier?" Also depends what you mean by new... I used to go out more and socialize, but not with red pill theory in mind. That's more the past half a year or so.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 06:31 AM
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Yeah this is what I'm leaning toward too. I tend to get along with older women more easily. They're great conversationalists and actually know shit and have well formed opinions. Probably cause they've hit the wall. Like I said in another comment, if an pretty older lady (with or without kids) wants to fuck around with me, I don't see anything wrong with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 05:37 AM
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I don't want an LTR lol. There was a woman in her early 40s some months back who was clearly interested in having sex with me, but I decided not to. I had a similar experience with a different older lady. Idk. If they're out on the prowl and just wanna get fucked, why not?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 04:08 AM
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Just did, and yep I'm not as bummed out now. Crazy.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 03:50 AM
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I really doubt that. This bar is kind of tucked away in horse country and she's sort of in a different city. When I asked where from and they told me, I said it must've taken an hour to get there. They said it took 45 minutes. It even took me 20-25 minutes. But still, thanks for the advice. I've bumped into women in that same situation and act just how you suggest.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 03:49 AM
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I mean you've autotuned the shit out of the vocals so I can't actually tell. The best way to critique is if you were to post a clean cover of a popular song. Sing some Roy Orbison or some Beatles or something. That way we have a reference for the melody, the timbre, the dynamics, etc. I'll take the $5 via venmo thank you
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:15 AM
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I was going to ask about this, actually. Is asking my age a shit test? Usually when girls ask I say something like "Too old for you" or some nonsense or "how old do you think I am?". She guessed 30. I should've said "You're right!" and she was taken aback when I said 24. I thought she was 21, actually. I'm sure she was flattered.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 01:58 AM
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Very interesting. Any more insight? She did some more keen to talk to me after I had pulled away for that hour or so. She reached out to me when she was standing in line for the bathroom, hanging on my word, etc. Danced with me for multiple songs. I don't think it was a wrong move. Plus, I could've found more interesting women. shrug
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 01:55 AM
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No it's not hard to grasp. Like I said when I'm with women in isolation (on a date or whatever) I have no problem doing that stuff. You're right there were definitely times I could've said "hey let's go outside and get a drink" or walked her up to the bar or something. In fact, I probably could've just taken her hand and led her wherever I wanted, because she made it very clear to me she wanted to be led.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 01:52 AM
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Maybe I didn't demonstrate high enough SMV, idk. Maybe I fell into her frame. I left out the fact that after I texted her this morning, she began a conversation in Spanish "Ah! Senor Miguel. Un gusto para bailar contigo anoche" (Ah, Mr. Miguel (not my name), a pleasure to dance with you last night). I continued the conversation in Spanish, asked her out to drinks in Spanish, etc. We're both white btw lol. I also noticed when I asked for Thursday, and she said she couldn't because she's going out…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 01:19 AM
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I've always been okay with being by myself (though I do like socializing). I used to hear people say "I'd never be able to go to a movie by myself" and I never understood that. Also going out with people really isn't an option for me. I live far a ways away from my good friend who doesn't much like going out anyway, and my other friends are older, tend to be busy, and are also similarly far away. I go out with friends maybe once a month, the rest of the time I gotta fly solo. There's a video fro…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 12:28 AM
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Thanks. I'm good at escalating when I'm on a date with them, no problems there, but when we've just met and we're with her friends and stuff I guess I haven't figured that out. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 12:10 AM
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I don't think people are going to downvote me. The FR seems in the spirit of TRP, methinks.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 11:46 PM
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Record yourself singing songs you like. It's one of the most painful experiences you can go through. I still record myself singing every day and I don't cringe as much as I used to, but I can always point to little things that can be improved. Before a gig (just me and a guitar) I'll work on the melodies for songs for about a week, record myself, fix the dynamics/timbre, work out the melody notes again...back and forth and back and forth. I'm decent enough that I get hired to sing lead/harmonies…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:20 PM
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I don't consider lifting a "hobby" but I guess so. It's as much of a hobby as drinking water and jerking off, I guess. I read. Fiction, non-fiction, literature, whatever. Been reading Harry Potter for the first time (sort of) lately and I'm surprised with how much I'm into those books. Plus most chicks dig Harry Potter so it's something to know. Also a musician...Guitar, piano, bass, vocals, synths, producing, bit of drums. Whatever I gotta do. It helps pay the bills so idk if "hobby" is correct…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:10 PM
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Next her bruh cmon you ain't got time for that shit you a god damned HIGH VALUE male ffs
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:27 PM
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Don't give women validation unless you're pleased with the way they acted. You are Pavlov, they are your dog.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 09:01 PM
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Meh don't worry about it
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:13 AM
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It's the one thing in my life I can finally be full autist about and people don't look at me like I just farted
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:45 AM
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Listen to some Jordan Peterson. He'll tell you what to do. I moved back with my parents. It doesn't feel too great, but I've been able to buy lots of instruments and gear and software for my music production business. It's a tradeoff. Good luck.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:20 AM
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Whoops sorry. Regardless, it's okay, and read the posts in the thread on this subreddit (can't link i guess) with the title "being funnier" I'm honestly not that funny either, I'm just quick and try to pass every shit test that comes my way. Once you start looking at like 75% of social interactions as shit tests then everything just becomes practice. ​ I could be wrong, but this seems to be the one thing you can be 100% full-on retarded-autistic about and people aren't going to look at you funny…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:16 AM
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It's honestly changed everything for me. I'm no longer even remotely afraid to talk to anyone or "prove myself" or "try to be funny" or any of that nonsense. When I learned from you guys that the answer to 90% of shit tests is agree and amplify, then realized that literally everyone is giving shit tests constantly, man or woman, young or old, every social interaction I've had has become significantly easier. I can actually guide it and control it and play with it now, instead of just being in it…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:09 AM
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You're already on the right track dude! You decided to call that black guy cliche black people names after he started calling you cliche white people names. Just treat every situation like it's that one. ​ The worst thing that happens if your joke falls kinda flat and people just sort of shake their hands and smile. But that's better than being defensive and being pushed around. ​ It just takes practice. Like I said: Pretend everything is a shit test all the time and basically agree then amplify…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:52 AM
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I don't get it...Just be a regular person?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:33 AM
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None of this matters. Ask her out.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:33 AM
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If you're old enough for drinks (can't tell from your post) set up a drink date. Set it up, don't ask when she's available. Say you want to go here and this time on this day. If she says no, but wants to spend time with you ("in that way") she'll ask for a raincheck. ​ Get Drinks Run game (agree and amplify every shit test) Hold frame Get fucked Also 0. lift
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:49 PM
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She's willingly spending time with you. That's it.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:40 PM
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You handled that black guy exactly as I would've handled it "Oh hey Shafon, sappenin?" This is called agree and amplify. Do it with anything and everything. "You need a haircut" you think that's bad let me show you my ballsack (unzip) (it is possible to pull this off, though they may be repulsed) Look at every interaction with everyone as a shit test... Unless they're obviously being genuine people. It's good practice for when women shit test you. Never get defensive. Ever. Always joke and agree…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:36 PM
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I can't tell you about specifics and haven't been in an LTR, but to your "overtly stating [you're] high value" I would say don't do that. It's like the guy who goes around saying "I'm a funny guy" but doesn't get anyone laughing. Creative writing 101 says that you should show, not tell. Don't say "Mary is a curious girl" instead have a scene where Mary is exploring, asking questions, learning things. Then the audience really knows she's a curious girl. You've demonstrated you're high value, othe…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:18 PM
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Delete her from your phone, hide her from social media and find another woman. All you did was kiss her... Don't let women keep you on the back line like that. YOU need to keep THEM there.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:54 PM
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You've texted enough. Even just one day of texting (a few messages back and forth) is enough. Don't ask her out, tell her out: "Let's grab coffee. Saturday at 7 work?" then she'll either say yes or say she can't do Saturday, how about another day?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:52 PM
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The one thing that helped me a lot just recently was internalizing agree and amplify. You can practice on your friends and coworkers. Pretend like EVERYTHING is a shit test (you're allowed to be autistic about this one, to some extent) and then agree with the premise, and amplify it to absurd levels. This also saves you defending yourself and being awkward. Here's an example: (frequent, old customer comes in and I help him out, say hi, treat him nicely) Female coworker: "Why do you suck his dick…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:26 PM
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Lmfao
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:16 PM
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In addition to what others have said, don't be a "gentleman" over text. You should've said "Let's get a drink at such and such place. It's one of my favorites. Saturday at 7." You lead, she follows. She already has plans for the weekend but if she's interested she'll say "Sorry I can't. How about another day?" You NEVER ask what her availability is, because then YOU are making time for HER, and that demonstrates low SMV. She'll make time for you or she won't go out with you, period. I used to do…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:06 PM
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Judging from those texts you don't know how to game women as well as you think
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:01 PM
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https://youtu.be/X9JLij1obHY?t=11781 Right here Eric Weinstein points out exactly what you're saying. It's constant contradictions. It's the contradiction of "I'm a woman so you couldn't POSSIBLY understand what I'm going through" mixed with "We need to make policy based on what I'm going through you MUST understand." Or the classic "Gender is a social construct. Women can have armpit hair and bulldike haircuts and act tough like men" but the moment a male wants to "act" like a female (see: chop…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 05:18 PM
1

It's weird to me that the top posts here are saying she's delusional, but the top voted post of all time on this sub explicitly says that masculinity is in crisis... https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/95fizz/what_i_learned_about_male_psychology_in_line_at/ I agree with the other ladies that you should get in tune with your feminine side, but make no mistake--you're right. Boys are being trained to act like girls, and it's pretty fucked up. Women don't want it, men/boys don't want it,…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/18 06:39 AM
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Thanks dude. Check the other comments to see what I said to her...I think shit's gonna fall flat because we both live with our folks (WHOOPS): her saving before heading off to the peace corps, and me buying up gear and software for an adequate studio. So the only option is banging in my car somewhere I guess. Yikes. Times like this make me wish I didn't move back, but I've also been able to buy guitars and synths and microphones without any sort of credit card debt...It's a tradeoff. ​ My brothe…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:15 AM
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No reply so far, and again I had already texted her the above joke and she had already responded. Maybe it seems out of left field. We'll see. There are always other women
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:29 AM
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Alright dude fuck it I just did that. I've never done that before so...Fuck it. It'll be fun to see how it goes.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:00 AM
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No don't go full nuclear. Her toy is you driving her to and from work. I assume you two are sharing a car or something? If it's your car, draw the line and tell her to get an uber. If it's her car, why don't you get an uber so she can use it? If she has such a huge problem with you wanting to get some rest to be ready for your work, that is a big red flag and she seems like a narcissist. If she really is that big of a narcissist, then she may not be LTR material. ​ I can't imagine ever having th…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:52 AM
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I like this idea, but I can't help but feel like it will just come off as me falling for the carrot and her continuing to dangle it, cause now she knows I'm hooked. You're right about the stop texting back and forth though, I don't plan to text her any more than logistics now. ​ It's interesting, but I want other people to weigh in first.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:46 AM
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And what do you do when a child misbehaves? You take away their favorite toy. You have to draw the line. She wants you to draw the line. She wants the man she's in a relationship with to have a spine and stand up for himself, ESPECIALLY to stand up against her. She may fight and moan and argue (or she may respect your decision and have no problem) but that doesn't matter. You know what you want and she can't get in the way.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:43 AM
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Tell her you need sleep and that she can order an uber. If she puts up a fight reiterate that you need your sleep or your work suffers, and if she's going to be later than 11 (or even earlier, depending on what you want) she'll have to take care of it herself. ​ She's a grown woman, isn't she? Why are you treating her like a child?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:38 AM
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After getting her number there were about ten texts each back and forth over the course of two days, with varying lengths of time between each. Sometimes hours, sometimes an hour, sometimes 15 minutes. All of the texts were just us joking--she's very easy to play off of. Then we got to the logistics and the next texts after that were all about logistics, three days before meeting up. After setting those logistics there were no more texts, other than the one saying she couldn't make it and having…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:07 AM
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OP part of being a good conversationalist is knowing a little about a lot of subjects (movies, books, games, working out, music, politics, food, anything and everything) and another part is knowing when to listen because you either a. don't know about the subject or b. don't care about the subject but the person talking does. Keep in mind people WANT to talk about what they like, and you encouraging them to do so makes them like you more. So don't scoff at their interests unless you're clearly t…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:53 PM
1

agreed
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:43 PM
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Thanks man! Very encouraging words. You're right I should've rubbed her clit, and your solution for "I have to go home soon" makes sense to me, too. Then after that heated make out is when I cut the rope and say it's time to go.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:40 PM
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I've gone up against LMR and ASD before but I'm not good at dealing with it, I've realized. It seems continuing forward/trying to escalate doesn't usually work out and she'll end up saying it's time to go now. Someone else pointed out that I should've been the one to say "Okay I gotta get going" and pull in the reins...That could help prevent any LMR that could arise.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:23 PM
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Good to know. That's pretty cute lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 09:13 PM
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Thanks for the comments. ​ Good point. Her exact words were "I wouldn't do that if I were you" so no, I guess she didn't say stop. Good point. I actually did, I just left it out of my field report. I said to her "There's a lot more space in the back and it'll be less awkward" and that's when she was saying "No I have to go home soon." That's when I also said to her "But then how are you gonna suck me off?" and she said "Next time." Noted. Others have pointed this out as well. I guess her saying …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 09:04 PM
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Thanks man. Keeping it playful about saying retarded and acting all like I'm "in trouble" would've been more fun. ​ You're right, I should've ended it before she was saying "I have to go home soon" but we had only been making out for probably five minutes at that point. When she said "I have to go home soon" should I have finished up there? But then that seems like we're leaving on her terms, right? So by the time she says "I have to go home soon" I've already lost that game? What do you mean "p…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 08:49 PM
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Alright I posted it over there. If you think this doesn't belong feel free to remove, though I think the field report part of it is actually helpful.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 08:25 PM
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Should I have posted this there instead? Sorry about that if that's the case.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 08:22 PM
1

Thanks bud. I forgot to mention in the original post that she's going into the Peace Corps in March, so she's clearly not looking for an LTR or anything. Just wants some fun before she heads off.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 08:15 PM
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I don't remember the context of saying the word retarded, but I can assure you I wasn't making fun of her or anyone, it was a word that came out. We can get into the logistics of why using that word isn't actually bad, and also why I'm not going to let anyone guilt me into not using a word that was perfectly acceptable just 5-10 years ago, and also the origins of the word as it came about as a replacement for other words, so I'll leave this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tFADO_hGeo0 But I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 08:14 PM
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Totally agree with number 1. There are some kids who come around here who are in high school and I think good for them! When I got into college I was browsing the seduction subreddit (which in all fairness gets a couple things right) but if I had been on Redpill instead I would've actually had good game back then. Instead, I was a skinny, blue-pilled simp who only had bravado going for him--which got me a couple dates, admittedly. ​ But if I knew about shit tests, agree and amplify, outcome inde…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:50 AM
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Agree and amplify is the biggest one for me lately. It's finally cemented how to "not give a shit" and how to have a good sense of humor and NEVER be defensive or insecure. It's made me a lot more fun and confident. I would argue understanding hypergamy and SMV are more important, but those are really just sort of bookish concepts. A&A gets you through (most) any shit-giving social situation which, when you open your eyes, you realize happens constantly from everyone around you. By constantly pa…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:46 AM
1

After not getting a response from her when asking about NY, you shouldn't have texted again. This is where you end up looking desperate. Believe me--I've been there. Part of me thinks you shouldn't have asked her about her going to NY at all. The ensuing text conversation was her inviting you into her frame and you complied: Never do that. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if she has her eyes on another man right now and she just made an excuse to not see you. Really? Like a boy would distract you…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:00 AM
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Nope. She's put you in her frame. She has power over you. She's won. The above poster is right. Say nothing and if she cares enough she will reach out. If you reach out she knows for a fucking fact she has you and you're nothing to her st that point.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:27 AM
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I think I'll just edit the original in case anyone stops by...
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:16 AM
1

These are good points and I will consider them, thank you. In fact, I agree with the other posters that I should've agreed and amplified and kept it fun. But I've learned my lesson. I was going to delete this thread but figured I'd let it stay up so people can see mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:26 AM
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Good for her, but I think it's very sad that our movement has to come out of the mouths of women for people to care... Like if men say anything it's hand-waived away, but once women talk they listen. Just insane.
/r/MensRights20/10/18 03:59 AM
1

"I have a kid of my own I'm not willing to leave without a dad" sounds to me like "If it comes down to me dying or my kid dying, I'd let my kid die." Though I could be wrong?
/r/MensRights19/10/18 05:43 AM
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But then for the rest of the life you have to live with the fact you let your kid die
/r/MensRights19/10/18 04:02 AM
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Is not learning the language of video games "making you a better person"? How is it different than reading a book? I mean this seriously. Video games are a fantastic artistic medium and their depth has only been poked. Understanding video game mechanics will be important to everyone's future. Some of the greatest works of art will be video games and we need to have the context to truly appreciate them. Again: Are you playing video games to procrastinate your actual work? That's bad. Are you play…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:43 AM
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TV is not brainwash. A lot of it is, but there is some high quality art that comes out of TV. Is listening to classical music "brainwash and programming"? Is reading Dostoevsky "brainwash and programming"? Where do you draw the line? Do you assume because it comes out of a screen that it's garbage media? I will concede that a LOT of stuff on TV and in movies is "popcorn media" and I don't think people should waste their time on it. But there is something to be said for watching great television,…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:38 AM
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I disagree with this. Like anything, it's fine in moderation. If gaming is taking over your life then yes it's bad. If you play a few hours a week to keep up with the industry or even just for a good escape, there's nothing wrong with that. Video games are a fascinating medium and frankly I feel lucky to watch it grow and evolve like it's doing. If the media is of high quality it can teach you things about life and also inspire you and resonate with you in an almost spiritual way. I agree binge …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 11:20 PM
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And then you got quarantined
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 01:43 PM
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That could work too, though idk if it would in this context. I wasn't that quick to think so I took the other route--not saying anything.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 08:28 PM
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Sorry it wasn't clear. I edited it for clarity. the look is what said it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 06:29 PM
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Women just don't want weak men, that's all there is to it. Women are attracted to strong men. The moment you show any vulnerability that's it.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 05:37 PM
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I had a pretty eye-opening moment myself about "venting" to a woman. I had just met her at a bar and we were getting along great. Good sense of humor, conversation wasn't boring but it was light and fun and nonchalant. Then there was a moment when she complained about her coworker being a bitch or something. To try and relate to her, I started telling a similar story but watched as her eyes glazed over and she sort of looked around the room. I had to cut the story short and make a mental note to…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 09:19 PM
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What'd he use? PayPal? Venmo? ... For science
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 02:44 AM
1

You're missing the point:.. Literally: What about the children?
/r/MensRights29/09/18 07:34 AM
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Is there a kid involved? Also why does their sexual preference matter?
/r/MensRights29/09/18 05:33 AM
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Huh? I don't see how so...Also I tend to not asking feminist women many questions anymore.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 10:13 PM
2

I can't even find the subreddit right now. I'm on mobile if that makes a difference. Is it gone?
/r/MensRights28/09/18 01:15 AM
1

It must be where you live. I live in Phoenix and always get a thank you regardless of age or gender.
/r/MensRights21/08/18 02:56 PM
2

But men did those things because of the patriarchy! Women weren't ALLOWED to do those things, silly!!
/r/MensRights29/07/18 03:14 AM
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It may seem really shitty right now dude I get it, but that is a huge red flag. That woman would have been impossible during the whole marriage. You would've had a miserable life.
/r/MensRights22/07/18 03:26 PM
1

You know this is one I don't really get. Universities are overly expensive leftist--indoctrination camps and are growing more and more outdated given the democratization of the Internet yet we're supposed to care what gender gets more degrees? Is it at all possible that more men are realizing it's a huge waste of money? I mean this seriously... What can a degree get you that experience can't? What can a degree get you that books and the internet can't?
/r/MensRights27/06/18 05:11 AM
1

Yeeaahh that has never and would never happen. If people on this sub say not to talk to feminists it's because they understand that feminists are dogmatic and refuse to listen to logic or reason. But you'd be hard pressed to find someone here who says "We should never talk to feminists"
/r/MensRights25/06/18 05:29 AM
1

Ya know the more I hear crap like this the more I think girls never grow out of the "Mean Girls" phase--the context is just different. That movie is too spot on.
/r/MensRights22/06/18 12:24 AM
1

What's it like working with mostly women? Is it vastly different from working with mostly men?
/r/MensRights21/06/18 11:01 PM
1

Just so you're not only getting downvoted: Coal may be not-so-good for our environment, but at the moment it's the only source of energy we can easily manipulate (I. E. do we use less or more at certain times). We don't really have anything to replace it for the time being and seeing as most Americans work 9 to 5, our energy uses fluctuate and need to be helped along accordingly. Nuclear is great and all, and a good baseline, but it's not as flexible.
/r/MensRights20/06/18 04:35 PM
0

Don't they mean both genders?
/r/MensRights19/06/18 08:48 PM
6

"What's mine is mine and what's yours is ours"
/r/MensRights17/06/18 05:51 PM
9

She's not the enemy you fool. Don't make us look like bastards.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 03:00 PM
10

This is your first red pill, and there may be many more to come. In the next couple years it's very possible that your "friends" will not like the way you think and may alienate you. You will learn who your true friends are and who actually cares about you. Find Karen Straughan on YouTube and watch all of her videos. She was featured in the red pill and also comments here on reddit frequently. She does brilliant work. Watch the Red Pill raw files. Hours of unused footage from the film, all just …
/r/MensRights16/06/18 02:55 PM
3

That pesky patriarchy negatively affects men too, you know!
/r/MensRights14/06/18 06:53 AM
1

It's like men putting up with women's nagging/incessant talking about nonsense so they can sleep with them. Goes both ways buddy
/r/MensRights06/06/18 09:09 PM
1

Agreed on the first part, not sure about the second. But that first part is what I was getting at. The problem is feminism and family courts have disincentivized and destroyed any reason women could want the nuclear family model. Dating girls in my 20s is a nightmare. Feminism has rotted their brains and sold them lies about having and eating their cake.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 10:11 PM
1

It sort of is. The MRM recognize that most problems boys and young men face are a result of fatherless homes... How are you going to have a present father without the "nuclear family"? I mean honestly what's the better alternative? I get where mgtow is coming from: Divorce is so likely to completely fuck you (and the children) over that getting married is not worth the risk--I get it. But it really seems the only solution to a lot of these prevailing problems is present fathers. That recent talk…
/r/MensRights20/05/18 05:32 PM
1

Feminists have been against the nuclear family since at least second wave, maybe even first. Marriage oppresses women and all that.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 02:33 PM
1

Why would they need cosmetics? Aren't beauty products just part of the toxic patriarchy?
/r/MensRights14/05/18 05:09 AM
2

I can't agree with this enough. I'm two years older than OP and while still young, I find I'm growing more comfortable and "quenched" whereas when I was his age I felt much the same way he does.
/r/MGTOW08/05/18 07:59 AM
1

Completely agree.
/r/MGTOW03/05/18 05:17 PM
0

Ah yes... That makes sense.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 05:10 AM
1

Discrimination happens all the time--listen to Thomas Sowell. He points out that even black taxi drivers discriminate against black passengers based off statistics. They're a private company. If doing this leads them to better profits then that's their prerogative. Yeah it's kinda shitty for us dudes but complaining about this is the same as feminists complaining about the pink tax.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 03:02 AM
1

Honestly though I don't think it's that crazy... If men statistically get into more accidents then what's so wild about charging them more as a group? They're an insurance company. Same kinda stuff happens with health insurance
/r/MensRights30/04/18 12:02 AM
2

Yeah seriously not a SINGLE Tele? BRUH
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 04:48 PM
1

And, out of curiosity and also sort of playing devil's advocate, this is true, isn't it? Feminism was responsible for equal treatment in the work place and the emancipation of female careers, right? Please correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 10:10 PM
1

I wouldn't say it's a treatise on why not to get married... The main guy (don't remember his name, the guy on the couch in the opening) cheats but eventually it works out. Plus Levin marries Kitty and they live "happily ever after" But yeah poor Anna lol
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 08:19 AM
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You're sort of right, it is how they naturally act, but all of the power play and social hierarchy stuff is happening underneath it all. I doubt any of it is conscious, but they definitely know how they feel and how YOU feel after the end result. It's like shit tests. Women may not deliberately, explicitly be testing how much of a man you are, those phrases probably just come out, but depending on how you react they know where you two stand. Fail a shit test and you're beta, baby. Hope you didn'…
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 08:09 AM
1

You say you started to text her for a couple weeks. Could you be more specific? Are you saying you texted her for a couple weeks at a time without seeing her in person? If so, that's not cool. You don't want to be her "texting buddy", even if she does text you first. You can mince words every now and then, sure, but texting should be used MAINLY for setting up dates. Okay next, she said she was busy and grounded, which was a lie, that should be a big red flag right there. She lied to get out of …
/r/seduction29/11/13 01:56 AM
1

I kind of have this same problem, man. Music is probably the most important aspect of my life for me, and if I share the same tastes in music as someone, or we can at least respect each others' tastes and show each other music, I definitely have a deeper connection with them. I find the easiest way to minimize this problem is by going to places/events where these people would exist. So for instance, I go to a lot of local shows and meet girls there because we're there for the same reason, and th…
/r/seduction07/11/13 06:35 AM
3

Dude use your sisters as wing women. This sounds like an amazing opportunity. Don't be embarrassed of your PUA side it's who you are!
/r/seduction03/11/13 08:51 AM
1

Ah, I get it now. I'll try that out next time!
/r/seduction22/10/13 06:26 AM
5

That seems terrible...Wouldn't that make you seem like a loser who's afraid of what other people think of you? Wouldn't a real PUA just fucking hug the chick if he wants to?
/r/seduction21/10/13 02:20 AM
1

Hmm, I'm not making it clear that I'm hitting on one girl. Wouldn't that make the other jealous or bitter? Also how would I know if my target is fine with escalating in front of her friend? By just fucking doing it?
/r/seduction19/10/13 05:31 AM
3

You can totally turn that into an excuse for kino! "Oh! Your hands are cold!" "I know, help me keep them warm :)" or some such bollocks.
/r/seduction16/10/13 05:11 PM
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NYC hellhole C'mon man really? Change your attitude first. Then we'll talk.
/r/seduction01/09/13 08:01 AM
2

We need more info mate.
/r/seduction01/09/13 07:59 AM
1

Insead of simply discussing the facts, discuss the feelings that are associated with those facts. Did she just move? Was it scary? Exciting? How does she feel now? Maybe you had a similar experience. Share how you felt. Opening up like that will only make her attracted to you. As Mark Manson says, it's about being vulnerable.
/r/seduction01/09/13 07:57 AM
1

I agree. I've never even heard "boyfriends are an unnecessary drag" before. I know LOTS of girls that have boyfriends...
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:13 AM
1

Even though this is just anecdotal, for my personally it's not related at all...My parents have been married for nearly 40 years and I was raised Mormon, I just sincerely don't want a relationship right now. I realize I want sexual relations, but don't want to deal with relationships and whatnot for the time being. I do plan to get married some day, I'm just too young now.
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:06 AM
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She agreed to hang out, so take that as an IOI. I'd just go full throttle, personally. If she's got a bracelet, grab her wrist and point it out and ask about it. If she's got a necklace, same thing. If she's got good nail polish, same thing. If she's got a cool shirt or skirt or whatever, same thing. Tattoos, same thing. All the while, you compliment her on these things. i.e. >grab wrist "Oh! That's a cool bracelet. What's the story behind it?" Sit close to her, legs touching. Every now and then…
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:42 AM
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I like lady a lot, personally.
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:36 AM
5

Just...Whatever hobby interests you man. You shouldn't do a hobby because it'll get you girls and shit. If you wanna learn guitar, learn guitar. If you want to learn Spanish, learn Spanish. There must be something you've thought "oh that'd be cool if I could do that" for a while.
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:31 AM
2

What in the actual fuck...
/r/seduction16/08/13 11:29 PM
2

What the other users said. As you age, assuming you're actively trying to get better, even just a LITTLE BIT, you ARE going to get better and in a few years women will come crawling to you. I'm 19, and I've had more women this year than I did last, but it's still a really small amount and I'm still working on my game a lot. I think if I just keep going in a couple years I'll be way better.
/r/seduction18/07/13 03:14 AM
2

I use text strictly as a means of showing that I'm "fun" as well as letting her know how sexual I am. I never talk about anything serious over text. I basically just tease her every now and then, COMPLETELY joke around and just overall act like a goofy character. I don't agree with seddit's almost unanimous "use it only as a way to meet up" policy, because I'm currently having sex with this chick who I text fairly regularly. You still need to play her a bit, though. Wait a few hours to respond e…
/r/seduction18/07/13 03:11 AM
2

Wait what don't lean in? How the hell am I supposed to get close to her for kino? If I'm sitting next to the chick, do I just keep my distance? Seems odd.
/r/seduction29/05/13 06:41 AM
1

I've recently hit it off quite nicely with a couple girls (makeout sesh with one, date scheduled with another) and I have been texting them, but there are a few things I keep in mind: Don't talk about whatever the fuck. The ONLY things you should be saying should be funny/witty, get her imagination going, teasing or be completely sexual. For instance, the very first text I sent to one of these girls was "QUICK A KILLER WHALE HAS YOU HOSTAGE AT GUN POINT AND THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DEFEND YOURSELF…
/r/seduction21/05/13 07:52 AM
2

I watched reruns on UPN45, but I was just a kid (probably 8-10) and I just found it amusing in general.
/r/seduction04/03/13 07:20 AM
1

Just literally say anything. ANYTHING. You're a girl. Guys don't expect girls to start the conversation.
/r/seduction04/03/13 07:12 AM
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Hey there seddit. How can I set up a date with a girl without coming across as needy? I recently ran into an old acquaintance of mine whose number I got and want to grab a cup of coffee with her. Her school schedule conflicts with mine, so during the school week won't work out. I said "Let's grab a coffee tomorrow!" and she said that tomorrow won't work because she has work, but that she'd still love to. I know when setting up dates you're supposed to be the one to take the initiative, but...How…
/r/seduction27/02/13 01:20 AM
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How did you deal with the "I have enough company" line? That would've completely thrown me off and fucked my confidence right there on the spot...
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:38 PM
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On the escalation ladder, overt class 2 has something that says "Sitting next to her with her leg over yours" Does this mean that she literally has her leg on top of yours? Do I just grab her leg and put it on top of mine or something?
/r/seduction22/01/13 12:12 AM
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My problem was that my sense of humor was incredibly sarcastic and dry, which made people out to believe I was a total asshole. They laughed a lot of the time, but they didn't think I was a very good person. So I decided to be a "better person" and thus my sense of humor kind of flew out the door with it. But as of late I've been regaining that humor, it's just not nearly as dickish.
/r/seduction17/01/13 05:51 AM
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"Sure people dislike me, but it's all cool" God damn, you ARE a chill son of a bitch.
/r/seduction06/01/13 04:52 PM
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Just take a hint from Bender "Shut up baby I know it"
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:36 AM
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