Have been solidly following the advice provided in this sub but most importantly I have been focusing on just shutting my mouth about myself. I like to just let the girl go on about herself while I tease and prod her for what she says. This led up to a hb8 actually calling me an enigma-- someone that is "mysterious, puzzling, or dofficult to understand". Just curious how you guys would respond to this and if you all think I am on the right track in terms of my approach.