Hey all.

Inexperienced RP'er here. 5 months in, doing the usual improvements and reading, and spinning 2 plates whilst I continue to improve myself.

One of my plates recently text me " You're in control " in response to why I couldnt/wouldnt see her more often. Is this a good thing?

This plate would be considered masculine ( ie: swears, likes a drink, and tells it like it is ), however in the bedroom she is full on submissive. I can talk dirty,light B&D, choke, anal, slap and spit on the face and she just wants more ( she cannot keep away from me - not sure if anyone else has treated her like this before) As a former married BP I am not used to this and find myself trying to come up with new ways to be dominant - SGM only goes so far.

Recommendations please as I would like to take this to levels I havent experienced. - what can I go to next , or will I have to look at more extreme BDSM ? Ropeplay? I am thinking I can get away with anything with this one