"You're just too nice"

MytruthNotyour · 2017-09-30T17:51:14+00:00

I started building up my confidence. Eye contact with everyone. Posture. Lifting.
Most important. I learned to say No.
There is no fast exit out of nice-guy-city.
read no more mister nice guy

RPpieceofgarbage · 2017-09-30T17:58:33+00:00

Idk while I'm not the asshole that "doesn't give a fuck" I don't go out of my way to be nice to a girl I'm talking to. I don't compliment her very often and I usually just mess with them in a playful way. I took a girl out on a date the other day for example. We played mini golf, I talked shit to her beforehand, when we grabbed our clubs and balls I teased her about how she took my favorite color ball, A few holes down I gave her club a nudge so she couldn't make the shot how we wanted right away, I started talking to some of the girls that went with their friends that were also playing (cracking jokes and and making them laugh) all while I would do the same with her. But she and I had a great time and she's been texting and Snapchatting me non stop since then. But last night I went out to the bars with some friends and flirted with girls and scoping out what they had to offer. What I'm trying to get at is being the "asshole" may not be what you think it is. Not taking what they say/do seriously and having an air of I could take you or leave you is my perception of it.

redlurker9 · 2017-09-30T17:57:57+00:00

Tease girls.

MrWisdom39 · 2017-09-30T18:16:51+00:00

You need the acquire the DGAF mentality.

It’s not easy, I’m still learning but it’s a step forward to pleasing yourself and getting what you want.

HunterRave · 2017-10-01T15:59:28+00:00

The thing is, I am so confident in my ability to change a girl's life when we're in bed.

You're not.

and that I can do so with great skill.

This "great skill" doesn't matter nearly as much as you think it does.

Describe to me the phase shift that occurred when you went from a sweet nice guy that wants to take girls on dates, to the "asshole" that doesn't give a fuck and gets laid like it's his job. How did your flirting change or how do you use flirting now?

It's not about flirting. It's about frame. Sidebar time bro.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-30T21:34:07+00:00

When I realized that bitches truly ain't shit it all changed. When I saw all the cheating, all the iois coming from married women, when I thoroughly read TRP material and the many horror stories people post here. Once you truly see that these hoes tryle ain't loyal, then you will have no problems.

Title	"You're just too nice"
Author	HunterRave
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	September 30, 2017 5:43 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/73gb7g/youre_just_too_nice/
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