I went to a bar last night. I got a water, and started walking around a little. I saw a girl alone, so I walked up and started talking to her. The interaction was fine and all, but I was definitely less invested than her so from a distance it looked like I was the man. After this, all the other girls in the bar payed way more attention to me, and were much more receptive. This one girl even approached me and asked me to dance, and then almost forced me to take her number, and were going out next week.