Could use some advice in dealing with this shit

themostgianthorse · 2022-03-31T22:00:08+00:00

This is normal.

You made a few comparisons to men and women in this post. This is mostly a waste of time because men and women are different. We have wildly different experiences especially when it comes to relationships and sex. Men will spend most of their time initiating while women will spend most of their time filtering.

We have different advantages and challenges. True, even mildly attractive women will have an easier time getting sex but they don’t value it the same way we do. What happens to a product when it becomes wildly available? It loses value. If you don’t believe me, ask your toothbrush. But for most women, this will fade. The pretty girl pours at the bar stop, only 32 “likes” instead of the previous 582.

Thank your lucky god damn stars that you are a man and your ability to attract and arouse the opposite sex does not come solely from your appearance.

Men and women are different. Physically, psychologically, socially, etc. Keep this in mind as you work through your anger phase. It’ll pass assuming you continue with your focus on self.

hltr78 · 2022-03-31T20:37:24+00:00

Just let it go man, he who cares least wins

MountainousFog · 2022-04-05T06:28:29+00:00

Your feelings are perfectly normal and natural. I recommend 15 minutes of meditation per day. Read the comments of this post and it will help a lot:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Meditation/comments/2ixjf6/meddits_online_recommendations/

Don_Draper27 · 2022-04-19T15:26:58+00:00

I had this happen for a few weeks when my daughters mother ended things with me.

I'd feel anxious when I woke up and anxious when going to sleep. I'd meditate twice a day, journal numerous times a day, and was even going to the gym twice a day to distract myself.

A week after the breakup, I had a mild panic attack when I saw her on bumble. I had to call a buddy and he walked me through deep breathing and listened to my rant. I immediately went to the gym to hit 1RM sets on my squat.

It did help when I developed plates. They were a good distraction and confidence booster, although I was reading through some old journal entries yesterday and I saw that I was still feeling anxiety over my ex.

Eventually it did just go away. I stopped missing her, I stopped GAF about if she was seeing anyone.

It was the first time that I'd been broken up with, and I don't think I handled it well. I see now that I had ego and possessive issues.

Your anger phase is another issue. Read the rational male and way of the superior man. Woman do get sex extremely easier, but men will gain a much higher sense of success from it every single time. This is the game. Learn the game and learn how to play it.

Title	Could use some advice in dealing with this shit
Author	St31nway
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	March 31, 2022 7:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	/r/newTRP
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