I [m23] Knew a girl [m21] for about a couple weeks of texting and we been on 4 dates. She has been very clingy and needy and affectionate to me and saying she loves me and whatever and we even agree to be exclusive after our third date. The last couple days with no warning or communication she has abruptly stopped responding to my messages and if she does it’s hours later with one word or a message reaction. And when I asked to hangout she said she was busy with family but on her Snapchat story she was with her girlfriends. I called her about her being distant and she said everything is fine between us and she’s stressed but I don’t buy it and think she’s lip servicing me cuz she would had told me she’s stressed and just losing interest and just “quietly” breaking up with me.

Usually if I was in college I’d cut ties and won’t accept this bullshit or mind games and move on since I can get laid and meet new girls pretty easily in college but back home in the SF Bay Area which is hypergamy central USA i don’t have any options (and she doesn’t know this cuz she thinks I could get laid here as easily I did back in college due to my fuck boi attitude) I really don’t wanna let her go which I know sounds bad cuz I might be celibate for another year. (Cuz I graduated a year ago and haven’t gotten laid back home yet, only when I visit my college to see friends or parties I got laid by hitting up girls I used to hookup with)