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promoting main plate to ltr

December 14, 2021

I have been seeing/talking to this girl for a few months now. The sex is awesome, she is submissive and obsessed with me, affectionate, cooks and cleans, raised in a strong classic family, we vibe great. I was spinning plates for a while before and into meeting her but stopped as we begun to hangout more and she mentioned being exclusive with the sex and I agreed since we vibe so well and I don’t want to hurt her.

I’d like to promote this girl to an LTR. I like her, and she genuinely seems like a good girl. Is it better to ask directly to take the relationship to the next step, or wait for her to bring it up? Knowing how she is, I believe she is waiting for me to bring it up because of the dynamic we have. My school is entering break for a while, and if we aren’t fully together I think she might think i’m just not into her (last girl I was seeing was waiting for me to ask her, but I never did and I moved on. She told me this a few weeks later) and find someone else if we see each other less which is fine if she wants to, that’s her choice and I have plates on my side. If I wait until she potentially brings it up during break, it would be better for my frame and not appearing desperate, but again she is probably waiting for me to ask and I want to make the right move. We live an hour apart during break so we would see each other 2-4 days every 1-2 weeks which is totally fine, preferably better with me. thanks homies

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Title promoting main plate to ltr
Author TryMobile3330
Upvotes 3
Comments 16
Date December 14, 2021 7:13 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/promoting-main-plate-to-ltr.1095301
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/rgeusl/promoting_main_plate_to_ltr/
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[–]ReneMast 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Bringing up The Talk is her todo

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[–]luciano1505 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pull back for a bit

[–]ReneMast 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Can't quite understand the nature of ur relation so far, for plates there is the one meetup per week max rule, seems u did not obey that, moreover I hear u somehow promised her being exclusive with her, now you told her to try to make 'it' work during the break. All in all it seems you promoted her to a monogamous LTR by your behavior already a while ago. Might have been too early as it is usually hard to demote. You probably also caught some oneitis I'm afraid..

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[–]ReneMast 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Depends on your end goal with that girl, should not decide on the basis of oneitis.. Maybe step back be outcome independent, focus on your stuff and/or other plates until u overcome your feels for her

[–]TryMobile3330 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

i do want to be with her and try it out. based on that what should i do then?

[–]ReneMast 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wouldn't recommend at the moment as I got the impression u are suffering oneitis.. if you want to nonetheless then go for it by acting if your are in an LTR boyfriend behaviour etc. Chances are you already did promote her to non-monogamous LTR by your actions anyway.. If you do, always keep frame, be outcome independent etc., beware that LTR is (somehow like marriage) TRP on hard mode.. Good luck (again I can still smell u r not ready for it, sorry bro)

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[–]Prestigious-Disk3158 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can we just delete this sub. Too many folks here come and want to make a plate an LTR. Like do you even know what the red pill is?

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