Main girl who i’m exclusive with made plans with me this weekend to take me to a game with expensive seating. Then sleepover at hers and meet her family. Known each other for months, great sex and getting along well, submissive, always texting never arguing etc.

Today she said she was going out with a friend and I asked who. She was texting me wayyy less throughout the day and yesterday (maybe because I was?). A few hours later she sends a pic with the friend and it’s a girl. Here’s the thing. She always tells me what she’s doing even when I don’t ask, and sending a picture followed by texts of “ i cant wait to see you and kiss you” reeks to me of being guilty especially when I didn’t ask for either. I want to give her the benefit of the doubt because she never did something to make me sus, but at the same time I don’t want to go to her house and get cucked and be a clown.

I asked why she sent a pic and she said because she is used to reassuring guys that question her. I said “is there a reason for me to question you because I never do” and she said no no there isn’t.

My gut is telling me to drop her over text as I will never know if she was out with another guy before meeting the girl, or if there are guys around them (who eats dinner at 9??). It’s unacceptable for a girl i’m this committed to to go out with other men.

The other side of me is saying stop overthinking it, continue with the plans, she has not given you a reason before to distrust, and don’t ruin it.

How should I proceed? It’s been making me anxious all day. Call me whatever, but at the end of the day I have a kind heart and don’t want to get hurt.