20M virgin

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-12-20T16:10:25+00:00

You need to do a lot more interaction. I recommend night game followed by building a huge social circle. You need to approach people and make more friends. I say a good 60 to 100 approaches a month will help. Don't worry about number closes all the time. Make female friends. Also always escalate.

otivito · 2016-12-20T16:35:22+00:00

You're putting a "ton of thought into interacting with girls"? What does that mean?

You're not "getting any results", what does that mean?

Girls are people. Guys are people. What you're trying to learn is how to communicate verbally and non verbally. All so you can learn how to attract the opposite sex.

It's not really a "game" but there are games we play when building attraction. Just like a peacock showings it's feathers, or a bird singing a pretty song. You need to understand how everything works before you can try to use the knowledge. When you finally do have the knowledge you won't be able to instantly master it.

You just need to get out and calibrate little by little until you find what works for you and what produces the results you're looking for.

I'm going to assume you're not particularly good looking for sake of conversation. That's not a big deal, or that important. However, confidence, a sense of humor, manners, grooming, health, are all very important. Where do you stand in those categories?

Do you look put together? Do you take care of yourself? Do you have a sense of style? Can you carry a conversation with people? How self aware are you? Are you aware of awkward moments? Do you know how to dissolve them? Can you make someone laugh? Do you have personal goals? Are you working towards something? Is there a way to implement that into conversations with people that may be interesting to them?

I'm just spewing random thoughts here but I think they possess value.

Don't look at seduction like things you have to learn so you can get laid. Think of it more like, if you want someone of value, make yourself into a person you and others would value as well.

Seduction is in the self help category. It's not about hacking a girl's brain. It's about improving your life.

Hope this somehow inspires you, and I don't come off brash.

MindsEvolve · 2016-12-20T17:12:17+00:00

Every path to improvement has walls to overcome. It sounds like you've been getting better, and now you've hit your next wall. I remember when I hit walls, girls were actually cluing me in to what I was doing wrong at the time. They might say "Oh, I'm feeling like it's too early to be sexual" or "Oh, I was hoping to tell you more about what my days are like before we move on to any next steps" - The girls are your manual, seek feedback from them and take it where you can. PM me if you want to tell me more details about your current situation, and I'll see if I can identify what the sticking point might be.

Title	20M virgin
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Date	December 20, 2016 4:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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