Hey guys,

So I've been seeing this girl who's older than me by 6 years for the better part of a month. We always have a good time when we go out and she's really into it, but the next few days after she always goes cold and says how it's not right, I'm too young, we shouldn't be doing this etc. But then after a while she gets needy and wants to talk/see me again and the process just repeats.

So I guess the question is whether there is a way to resolve this cognitive dissonance; on one hand she wants it, but on the other she feels it's just wrong for her to be seeing a younger guy.