Trying to have fun with girls is easy for me. I can make them laugh and have a good time no problem, although escalating into something is a different story. I had a couple of encounters when i was in hs but i was A LOT bigger (ab 50-70 lbs) bigger. Now that i am comfortable w my weight it’s hard to do anything because i still have the “260 lbs” mentality and don’t have the confidence to escalate anything.

Looking for advice on what others have done that helped them overcome this stupid and pointless mental hurdle. I can approach any women and start a conversation no problem (especially w drinks involved) but escalating a new friendship/relationship is the hardest thing I’ve done and trust me, I’ve done a lot harder things with my life than trying to get a kiss.