I'll give a quick recap on my first field report because it is relevant to this one:

I was drunk, horny, and had low self-esteem and went home with a girl I wasn't attracted to (I call her big girl) a few months ago. I kinda regretted it but tbh it was a learning experience that made me realize a few things. I've been working to value myself more, drink less, and haven't lowered my standards since. I didn't contact her afterwards, but I've seen her out a few times and I'll be polite without showing any interest whatsoever.

Friday Night

This night I drove a little under an hour to go on a first date in a nearby city. She was cute, but it was probably the worst date I've ever been on. I'm gonna mostly blame it on us being completely the wrong types for each other.

She would interrupt the natural flow of the conversation to tell me I need to speak more so she's gonna stop talking and demand me to speak. Like that's not how conversations work, but to be fair she was going on about her exes so I probably did zone out a bit. I'm just not good at pretending to be interested when I'm not.

Even though I have her number, she unmatched me before I was even home and that's perfectly fine with me.

Saturday night

Now this is the night I really want to talk about. I actually had a date planned this night but I ended up cancelling because she lives even further away than the first girl. Instead I went solo to my favorite local bar.

So the bar is semi-crowded and I've got a seat in the middle of the main bar watching the band on the stage directly opposite of the bar. The seats next to me up open and this unbelievably gorgeous blonde girl and her lesbian friend take them. It is important to note she is pretty drunk, I'm pretty buzzed though too.

At first I'm thinking this girl is out of my league, but honestly I'm not bad looking either and decide to give it the old college try.

We make eye contact and I smile and she smiles back. I ask her if she knows this band and we had a short but enthusiastic conversation. Eventually her attention gets pulled by some dude that came up to talk to her and her friend. I think oh well and return to sipping my drink.

Shortly after I see big girl from the first field report walk in. I try not to look at her but she's seen me. She walks up behind me and gives me a hug from behind. She's obviously pretty drunk herself because she hasn't done that before.

I'm trying to be polite because I don't want enemies so I say hi. She puckers her lips like she wants me to kiss her so I say "oh come on" and give her my cheek. She backs off and a couple moments later her friend comes up to introduce herself.

She says, "Hi, I'm big girls friend" in sort of a confrontational way.

I want no part of that shit so I'm like "good to meet you" and start turning my back.

She either didn't hear me or was just trying to be bitch and was like, "what did you say?!?"

I repeat myself once or twice, but then I am saved. The timing was so perfect it's sort of unbelievable. As I'm saying "good to meet you" again, I feel someone pulling at my neck from the other side. It is completely hammered and beautiful Blondie. She is pulling me in for a kiss and we start making out. I hear an audible gasp and a little bit of a shriek come out of big girl and her friend. Afterwards I'm just kinda sitting there stunned. Big girl and her friend leave me alone now. Maybe now she'll take a fucking hint.

Blondie tells me that dude was a bit of a creep and wouldn't leave them alone so she made out with me to make him leave. He left not long after that I spent the next hour or so hanging out with Blondie. We danced, talked, and made out a couple more times. I got her number and we made plans to get dinner.

Eventually she started kinda running around doing her own thing. I was a little drunk myself so maybe I fucked up or maybe she was just wasted, but the bar was getting close to closing so I said goodbye, said i'd text her about dinner, and left. I did try to get her to come back to my place, but she said she was going home with her friend.

Texted her yesterday but I still haven't heard back. I'm thinking she was just really drunk and had a shame hangover. Stings a little, but overall it was a good night.