ok so i'm at the bar talking to a chick that i want to make out with and i'm not sure how to cross the border of talking, to the land of kissing. all of a sudden out of the recesses of my memory comes this video i saw last week where this dude just goes up to girls and says, "can i ask you three questions?" i only remember 2 of the 3 questions but i improvised and lo and behold kiss closed this girl. basically i was just confident and had this girl 1v1, with good eye contact i said -in this order- "do you have a boyfriend, do you have a cat, and finally: give me one excuse not to kiss me right now"without giving her time to think but maintaining eye contact i just kissed her, and it worked, and she pulled me in and we had a long passionate kiss. there was a video posted about this but i think it was a joke, but it worked for me anyway.

TLDR: be confident, maintain eye contact, ask stupid questions and then just go for it