30 Day Challenge - Day 1

So, 30 Days. Talk to 10 girls a day. If it's under two minutes it doesn't count.
I’m just documenting what happens to ensure I stay true to the commitment. I’ve been doing RSD style pickup for about 6 months. I'd say I'm intermediate / beginner. I’m going to be putting down the experiences that I think are worth while.

PLEASE COMMENT TO HELP ME IMPROVE

Set 1. Single - Enter the mall. Eight AM. Tall girl sits down to eat her breakfast. I open "Hey are you okay? It looked like you were a little lost. What's going on" She replies she's eating her breakfast waiting for work. We talk jobs and we’re both enjoying the conversation and I tell her I'm an app developer and I built an app I need her to check out. She catches on, "nice pickup line" she says. I kind of flip flop between "what are you talking about" and "yeah, my lines need work”. I say I need to go and she declines giving up the number, she’s not looking for anything.

Analysis -> Rather than standing over her while she was sitting get on the bench next to her. Be congruent. Own being into pickup or deny it completely. It can’t be both. Be a little more persistent with the close and maybe not FIRST thing in the morning.

Set 4 - I see this girl at the map at the mall in the afternoon and offer my services as her mall tour guide. She’s looking for Forever21 I offer to help her find it. As we walk and talk I find out that she’s a flight attendant from London and she’s just in town for tonight with her hotel a block away. We shops for both of us for maybe 30 minutes. The entire time I’m paying compliments that she’s classy but also saying she is kind of like those slutty flight attendants from way back when. I offer we go get drinks but she can’t drink because of work. I make a few similar offers but she refuses playfully. I kind of give up and say this was fun I’ll see you later. We hug. I say “lemme get a kiss” and we do. “Okay bye”

Analysis -> Girls like sex more than guys do. She was probably thinking the same thing I was about a hookup and then poof gone. No downside. Rather than say bye I should have kept coming up with ideas for things we could do together or definitely some sort of adventure. All the while hinting at ideas to get her back to the hotel room. More direct with my intent.

Set 7 - Made it to the college bar at about eleven. I open the first set I see inside of the door and then the set next to that one to get warmed up. As I step onto the dance floor there is a cutie with a nose ring dancing by herself so I confidently hold my hand out “Hand of God” style and she takes it. I spin and dip her. This gets us smiling and talking. I just acted confident and told jokes and teased her about being a basic white girl. I keep touching her lower back as we stand along the wall. I direct the conversation to eyes and I lead her off the floor to a lighted area where I hold her face and we look into each other’s eyes. Perfect time to go in for the kiss so I do. We end up talking about the taco place nearby and she whispers “tacos” sensually in my ear so I tell her let’s go and grab her hand but as we step outside she says we won’t be able to make it back in. So we go back in. I keep seeding the pull with rooftops, video games, and weed and she seems into it but she’s a little skittish because her friends are somewhere nearby but I lead her into the dark again and make out a little more. I figure I have it in the bag so we start dancing. She looks at her phone more and more and all of a sudden her friends grab her and they leave the bar.

Analysis -> Basically had this one in the bag but only had one aspect of attraction down, physical. I could have done a better job spiking her emotions but the real short coming was going to the bar alone so I did not have any social proof. Plus, when her friends came to talk to her I just kind of stood there. Julien from RSD has an entire video about getting girls outside of the club and just being super persistent and they’ll follow. I tried once and figured I could just wait out bar close and she’ll still be with me. Wrong. Perhaps less dancing and more leading her to secluded corners of the bar could help too. My strength is one v one conversations.