I've had great luck with women most of my life being a bit of a player, but after high school ended my perfect girlfriend dumped me and I went on a two year dry spell where getting a girl was important to me but I did nothing about it. This isn't a write up on how to get over approach anxiety, that is basic. In the past couple months I've transformed into somebody who can get the most awesome girls, and here's how.

  1. Reading Models. This book offered a plethora of incredibly helpful advice. I took it seriously and I implemented so many changes into my life as Mark Manson suggested, things ranging from focusing on my style, to learning easy ways to be funny as hell, to being honest and vulnerable, to understanding how important using your deep voice or your "chest voice" is. It's the only pickup book I've ever read, and I'm sure it's going to stay that way. It was worth the two or three hours it took to read it.

  2. Understanding why confidence is so important when it comes to attracting women. I'll summarize shortly..If you're not conveying genuine trust in yourself and your actions from within, a girl won't perceive you as worthy. Trying to attract a girl while lacking confidence almost always comes off as pathetic. If you don't have confidence, learn how to gain it. Come on, you can do it. A guy on seddit said so.

  3. Watching fight club and embodying Tyler durden to some degree. Yeah, you probably didn't see this point coming. Really though, the character is driven, a leader, giving value rather than taking it, and just an overall absolute badass. It's hard to imagine a chick who wouldn't be drawn to this son of a bitch.

  4. Understanding investment. If you show that you're more invested in a girl than she is in you, you're dumb. It's going to kill the attraction. It's just part of female psychology to want a mate who is superior to her. Men are dominant..we construct buildings with our bare hands because we're capable. That's our role in relationships, to CHOOSE a woman worthy of us. Women don't want a guy, they want a man, they want to be desired by one who they perceive as awesome. To be that guy, understanding investment is important.

  5. Meh, that's pretty much all I got, nothing nearly as important as points 1, 2 and 4 comes to mind. I'm sure I'll think of something later and I'll share more if it seems important, but frankly I have a feeling I'm going to be downvoted to oblivion. Regardless, I know at least one person will be immensely helped by this post so I'm giving it to you.