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"a message that will stay between us"

IronKnee00

August 14, 2019

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Title	"a message that will stay between us"
Author	IronKnee00
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	August 14, 2019 12:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cq20lj/a_message_that_will_stay_between_us/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/a-message-that-will-stay-between-us.1476037 https://theredarchive.com/post/1476037

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[–]Report_Topside 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]IronKnee00 6 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]Report_Topside 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

So what do you hope to achieve? What is the purpose of engaging with that post?

Let's be real here. If she is attractive and has a good personality and lots of followers then chances are multiple guys are contacting her through Instagram. Who knows how many. Your guess is as good as mine. The point is, the digital world is a 2D space where anyone with an Internet connection can strike up a conversation. There is no intimacy and there is no physical contact. Tone doesn't convey well and humour can be missed and misinterpreted.

It is next to impossible to stand out especially if you do not know the person. Unless you are extremely good looking (and I mean extremely) there is little chance anything will come of it. You are much better off speaking to women in real life to establish your personality and engage with her properly. Looks matter significantly less in real life.

[–]IronKnee00 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheXXL2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Kind of weird how I never had any interest in her until i finished highschool and any possibility of meeting her again is probably zero

That's an easy one to explain: social media has been made for people to show only the best side of themselves. People only post their best moments, they curate their pictures, they make believe that their lives are better than the ones of super stars, and all that while they still have problems while never talking about it, they look like shit sometimes, they are unhappy often and the only thing that fuels their lives are likes and positive reactions to their imaginary great life.

My tip is to understand that and not getting fooled by it, or to stay away from this fairy land bullshit since reality is not polished and super great for 99.999999% of people no matter how much they try to hide it by painting this picture on social media.

[–]Report_Topside 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]IronKnee001 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link