'Sappenin, mostly a lurker but I know what I'm doing fairly well and generally have no problems.. Fortunately my best mate is into the PUA ideology aswell, so when we're out and about together we're unstoppable! My problem today stems from a specific fuckup with a girl I met in college with a bit of a lousy history - ex was a nutjob and ended up hitting her rather badly (cue court case, restraining order etc etc). This was two years ago and she told me she hadn't been in a relationship since.

Well, I took that as a cue to start treating her differently - I figured taking a step back out of attraction and escalating, and in general trying to make her feel more comfortable is what would be a "better" option, especially cause I saw LTR material. That'd be what she wants, right? NO. To this day I can't believe that I'd.. Anyway, mistake realised and noted. By lawd did I mess up, got her way too used to the friendly, respectable me, took it too slow and realised I killed off anything we had by for once having decent (lol) intentions.

Normally I'd accept a loss and move on, but I know it isn't dead yet. After a week of going back to the usual me, she's telling me how much of an asshole I am and how she likes it. There's still summin here - just give me a while to get back in the right state of mind with her and eventually tap dat ass like I want to blame the holocaust on it.

Basically, IF you've ingrained a proper mindset into your lifestyle, there's no "clicking out of it" anymore. There's no changing it and there's no hiding it. Be that better version of yourself, 24/7/52 - cause once you even think about trying a different method, you're up shit creek!