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[–]Woujo 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The fact that you care at all means you've lost.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
A shit test comes from a place of interest. To see how you would react.
That doesn't sound like something that comes from a place of interest. And even if it was, is she someone you wish to fuck once more?
Don't let women dictate how you should feel. Those are only words coming out of her mouth.
[–]massimovolume 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
well, we had sex a number of times, so I think she has an interest for me.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
If she has interest, then why would she have a hidden plan to embarrass you?
But either way, that's stuff you should flat out ignore, just so she gets the memo that you've above that petty bullshit.
100$ question: are you still interested in her?
[–]massimovolume 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
it's a long story but I feel like she has an hidden plan because she "hates" me now. I went out with her for a year and she said to me she loves me but I didn't reciprocate. As I read on her facebook profile she sometime complains she doesn't have a boyfriend and I just had sex with her without explaining I'm not looking for a relationship, but I thought it was obvious because I'm 24 she is 39. She still likes having sex with me because after the sea I went at her house and we had sex.
I'm not interested to her as I was before, this last event isn't the only reason.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Then I guess the question is: is the sex worth the trouble she gives you?
The answer to this assessment should give you an good indication of the best course of action.
[–]massimovolume 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link
do you think my theory could be true?
I don't have the answer to your question, for many reasons no, for other I don't have any other at the moment.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
Very, very hard to tell. I personally wouldn't assume hatred until it's clearly manifested.
But if I was you, I'd have a honest talk with her, just to know where to stand. Nothing aggressive, just with intent of crossing T's and dotting i's. And if she'd flip out on me, then I'd know it's time to move on.
[–]massimovolume 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
I forgot to mention two things:
she posted on her fb wall she knows a female friend who is dating a man, this friend had sex many times with this man, but he doesn't want to make things clear and this infuriates her. She then deleted this comment.
she went out with Lisa, a friend we have in common, she got drunk and cried because of a person. A friend of mine asked to Lisa for who's crying and asked if me is the reason. She laughed without wanting to answer.
I mean, it's possible she doesn't give a fuck about me and I'm just a fuck buddy, but too many things point to my theory.
Again I might be wrong, I might have twisted memories about how she was before but she was different at the start. I feel like she felt like I used her, realized the age gap and decided to be much colder from now on. She might have resentment against me.
I can't have an honest talk with her, I asked her before if I did something wrong to her and she replied no. I tried to talk with her but she doesn't want to explain her feelings and doesn't reply.
edit: I also know this theory of mine could be just made up and in reality she was lying when she told me she loves me, the person she cried for is a different person and the "friend" story was true, but I don't know, seems suspicious.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Let me ask you: why does it matter if the theory is true or not? If she's giving you that cold of a treatment, and if you can't have an honest talk with her, I'd say she most likely isn't worth the sex.
You're giving her way too much importance for what she gives you in return. And that's making you feel like shit.
[–]massimovolume 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
that's very true what you are saying. The reason is that after a bit I started to develop feelings for her, I feel like I'm in love with her, I feel jeaulousy towards other men, etc. I told her I'm in love with her but she said our age gap is too big and we should just be friends.
[–]Windfuhrur 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You think too much and since your friends why do you care?
[–]massimovolume 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not really a friend with Laura, more of an acquaintance
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't think anything of it, some women flub lines intended to be humor just like guys do.
[–]Kenic_In_MD 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you have to ask "is this a shit test?" it probably is.
Either way it isn't worth your time thinking about it. Just move on and pay no mind to that bullshit.
Had an older lady shit test me the other day because she was mad I flirted with a different older lady and not her. Not only did I waste my time explaining myself to her but I got nothing out of it. Don't give shit tests attention it doesn't deserve. Which is NONE.
[–]squatchi -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Laura hates real men like Frank, and wants to keep cucks like you around so that she can feel dominant. The "you're a man" comment was not an insult to you, but to Frank. You are rewarded for your submission with pussy.
[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have never seen so much wrong fit into two sentences. Bravo.
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