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About defense

Nacgt_the_Elyts · 2014-01-10T16:11:36+00:00

Hello guys, first of all: Sorry for my english, im not familiar to this language. So about defense, doesnt matter if is a friendship or a sexual relationship,...

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January 10, 2014

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Title	About defense
Author	Nacgt_the_Elyts
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	January 10, 2014 4:11 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1uw09x/about_defense/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/about-defense.1364257 https://theredarchive.com/post/1364257

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[–]sharkacolypse 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]Nacgt_the_Elyts[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Ok, i started the college back in 2013. I'll say other example, this happen to me today: I forgot my wallet at the house of a friend, there was money on the wallet but when i came to take the money he spent some part of this (so he just took my money on my own wallet? what the hells?) and said that he would not pay everything he spent just a part. I take this on a sportive way and said to he that he would yes pay all. So today i went take my money and i act like nothing has happaned, i smiled a lot i did not say anything about it. So i was like: "ok bro, u stole the money of my wallet, but is ok." i know i shoud ve had did something, like put any kind of limit to what he did to me, but i dont. Is this that i dont know how to act, how to defend myself when someone cross these limits, and too when a friend be rude like my sister was with me (this was an awful example i know)

[–]sharkacolypse 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It sounds like you need to learn how to deal with confrontation, which isn't something I feel I can teach you in a reddit post. If your friend is stealing money from you, you have a friend problem and a money problem. The money problem in particular can escalate very quickly, so whatever path you choose to resolve that problem I'd recommend you exercise caution. A step you can take to resolve this is to tell your friend you don't want to hang around with him if he's going to steal from you. If he says fine, then you've cut your losses. Or he might actually give you your money back.

If you want to make yourself a little more confrontational, go look up some topic and debate it with your friends (that don't steal money from you). Find some point and back it up - it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong because it's an exercise.

[–]Nacgt_the_Elyts[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]sharkacolypse 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link