I am a newbie on seduction, been doing it for around one year but due to lack of wings haven't had much opportunities to practice. I have been doing mainly nightgame, where I got the occasional number and make out. I have also been on Tinder where I got a few lays last year.

Precisely since I don't have that many wings to go out and do nightgame, I decided to rely more on daygame and social circle game. The first obstacle for me was the fear of rejection, which triggered my approach anxiety. One thing is to approach a woman in a club (you can basically tell her whatever and usually girls are on the mood to talk to randomers) - another thing is to stop a woman in daylight or, even worse, ask out someone you know from work or from any other group activity (where if you get rejected, you could build a bad social reputation).

I am still trying to get my head around daygame. I will be doing a progressive desensitization to actually be able to do a proper direct approach. But this week I finally got the courage to ask out a girl that I know from work and another girl that I know from a group activity.

Guess what, they both turned me down. It was not a big deal, but it got me thinking... Social conditioning had always got me believing that if I didn't get girlfriends from work/group activities was because I was shy, and all I needed to do was to step up. Well, apparently that was not the case.

I don't feel bummed out about it, but just wanted to share it with you. If anything, it has given me more strength to keep moving, because the mere fact of asking a colleague out terrorized me in the past, and at least I managed to do it even if I didn't get a good result. I feel like I'm on the good path. I think it is key to 'stockpile' rejections, to become used to them, so that they don't paralyze you ever again and you are able to do the approach/close. That can literally change your life.

I always try to dress in a stylish way, I have a good job, a good education and so on, but I guess seduction and relationships are not as easy as you see in the movies. All the more reason to keep learning this stuff!

Stay positive guys, and have a good evening ;)