If you've been one of the people that's been complaining about the lack of intimacy in your life right now due to the current situation, then this post will be very helpful.

The reason that I label this as an advanced strategy is because you need to have a good understanding of female nature for it to work as well as how to be an attractive man.

If you don't know how to manage women's emotions, if you're still attached to outcomes, you don't have full acceptance of yourself and your sexuality, you WILL suffer if you employ this strategy, because all you will accomplish is become friendzoned by a bunch of girls that you want to fuck.

Now before I get to the meat of this post, let me first describe how most guys in this community go about game.

Most guys get their dates through a direct cold approach method. They see a cute girl, they approach, spike her emotions, qualify her, screen for availability, make plans, get number and go on a date.

Now, there's nothing particularly wrong with this strategy. I, personally, prefer this approach a lot more than what I'm about to describe later on, but there are some weaknesses to this strategy:

  1. A direct approach tends to screen a lot of women out that might've been available to you had they had more time to get to know you.
  2. Cold approach in general works against a lot of guys. You could be the most attractive and charismatic guy out there, but if you didn't communicate that clearly in your approach, then you lose the girl
  3. Your successes don't compound enough, other than you build confidence and build social alliances over time. Just because you get one girl, doesn't make the next approach easier. It's always the same battle, no matter how many wins you get.
  4. Many guys, myself included, have expressed that doing too much cold approaching tends to make you a little bit sociopathic/narcissistic. It can get very depressing at times

There're a lot of other Cons to the above approach, but the strategy that I'll describe below, solves these exact four problems that I wrote above.

Now, you might say "Zenterus, I actually do more indirect approaches so this might not apply to me."

You're wrong.

Even if you do indirect approaches, as long as you go through the usual route of getting numbers and converting them on dates you're still experiencing similar Cons, including flaking.

Others might say "Well, I only do social circle game so whatever you say next, doesn't apply to me."

You're wrong again.

I'm from the school of thought that Social Circle game sucks. You rely too much on reputation and you lack the skills to recreate a social circle of your own vision if you lack the cold approach skills. The positives being that usually the girls within the social circle are more than willing to sleep with you because you're the Alpha of the group. But the fact that you are confined with your options is really underwhelming to me.

What I'm proposing here, is a mending of the two. Social Circle and Cold Approach. A system that gives you the best of both worlds without the negatives. Some call it LifeGame, others Setup Game. For the sake of originality we'll call this new form of game "Social System".

So what is a social system? It's a system designed to get you the girls that you would usually screen out with your direct approach or the ones that you lose during text game. On top of that, it's a system that compounds. Meaning the more wins you get, the more girls you get. Kinda like a business. Actually, EXACTLY like a business.

Imagine this, you're walking down the street and you see a cute girl. You approach her in a non threatening and indirect manner. You get into conversation and you find out that she's into photography and is aspiring to become a model. Instead of trying to get her number for a date, you invite her to join you and your friends for a photoshoot session that you had planned next week. She's excited and complies. You exchange numbers, but instead of texting her directly, you add her to a whatsapp group about the photoshoot that contains other girls.

Next week comes and she shows up at the assigned location. It's you and 5 other girls. All of them attractive and ready for the photoshoot. The whole time you guys are taking pictures, you're the life of the party. You're leading them to different locations, you're spiking their emotions and you're sexually expressive. The photoshoot comes to a close and you say your goodbyes.

Now, what do you think the girl will think of you? Despite your initial impression, the girl will view you in a completely different light now. Maybe she thought you were some beta cuck that she would use for free pictures, but now all of a sudden you're this alpha male that has all these other options.

How likely is she to show up if you were to invite her to hang out one on one next time?

It could be that the other girls in the group are girls that you met through cold approach, or just genuine friends. But no matter where you know them from, what kind of impression do you think they'll have of you, if everytime they see you you're introducing them to a new girl?

Exactly.

Of course, it doesn't have to be a photoshoot. It could be a party, drinks, clubbing, helping you with a creative project. Personally, I organize weekly drawing sessions (I'm an art student) and reap the benefits that way.

I don't think I have to repeat why this method is a lot more superior, but I will: 1. Your results COMPOUND. The more girls that you meet, the more girls you can close the deal with. You have increasing social proof around you and you literally game 10 girls at the same time. 2. If you have a more indirect approach, you don't immediately screen out girls that you might've if you did a direct approach. 3. It keeps your life productive and exciting. Instead of going on a bunch of dates over and over again, you could build a life of adventure, fun activities and a lot of girls! True deep abundance and high value. 4. You also get a lot of social media content to game the girls that are not present during your events.

The benefits are infinite.

I hope you see why I categorize this as advanced. For this to work you need to walk the thin line of being indirect and non-threatening while also presenting yourself as a sexual option. You lean too much on being non threatening and you're friendzoned, you lean too much the other way and you're a creepy weirdo trying to fuck every girl that moves.

This method also requires that you're a patient guy and a truly non-needy entity. You truly need to be the kind of guy that can enjoy hanging out with girls without lusting over them all the time. If you still haven't gotten over the primal need to fuck a bunch of girls, then this strategy is not for you, because it requires that you be able to have genuine friendships with women.

"What?! You said that I can fuck all of them!"

Yes, you WILL fuck a lot more girls, I guarantee it, but only of you're the REAL DEAL, but if you're thinking the above quotation, then that's not you.

I have female friends. A lot of them. Some of them have boyfriends, others don't. But I'm genuine friends with them because I no longer feel like I have to fill some kind of void by fucking a bunch of girls. I've been there, done that and it doesn't work, trust me.

Having that said, I did make out and hook up with some of my female friends from time to time when they go through a break up, just need some love or while partying. And it never feels weird after, because "I'm that guy."

The Social System method is for guys who are in genuine abundance, truly enjoy being around women and want to continue getting girls, without putting in as much effort.

To this day, even though we're in the times that we're in, I'm still dating girls. I actually believe that our current situation is a blessing. I just invite girls over for a drink because "Damn, everything is closed nowadays." They comply because they spent enough time with me to trust me. They saw how other girls react to me, how comfortable they are with me and follow my lead.

On top of that, my life is exciting as shit. Every week I'm planning my next event. My next strategic move. My next date. It keeps my life fun and exciting. I feel like I'm truly that high value guy, rather than a border line sociopathic pickup dude.

I don't want to shit on pickup. I still do it as I mentioned above. But if you spent years approaching, going on dates and pulling over and over and over again, then you know how empty it can get. How narcissistic and pathological YOU get.

The Social System method allows for a genuinely fun life, one that resembles a natural's while enjoying the extra benefits of knowing how to cold approach.

Let me know your thoughts below.