A close bro of mine has been struggling with women for quite some time. I've tried to advise him the best I can, but nothing really works. It's worth noting that he is a 5'4, 280 lb black man.

I would like to see my boy happy with a good chick and I'm not 100% familiar with all the technical competency of seduction. What can we do to help him get a woman?

Also consider that he is the type of man that seeks out women who seem to need saving. Imo right now he comes on too strong to them.

My goal here is to get some solid advice to give to him because I know he is hurting.

Update:

Thank you everyone for those responses. I agree and that's what I was thinking but I wanted to see if there was another way. The only problem is- he does WANT to hit the gym but he works around 70 hours per week and he is usually spent by the time he gets off in the evenings. He actually told me the day he's going to try to get back in the gym soon.