Advice for hookups on dating apps

Goldliner6263 · 2024-04-06T22:25:28+00:00

I've had quite a bit of success on the dating apps. Slept with probably about 12 girls last year. One of which I dated for four months. And some of the others we were exclusive for a bit. Could of been more actually, if I didn't make any commitments.

Anyway, This is just going off of my experience.

Don't put the horse before the cart. How many matches do you get each week? When I first started, I was doing like three dates a week. Just to get in those reps, and get heaps of practice.

Doing that, I began to get a really good sense of how to have sex on the first date and pull the trigger. At the very least, I never didn't hook up with them and was very physical as well.

So firstly, you need about 10 - 15 matches each week. For three dates. And you've got to be on the ball when texting them.

In terms of your question for sexting. Honestly, I never liked to make any sexual advances over text. I kept it casual and easy going. Once I was on the date HOWEVER, we would be hooking up within the first hour nearly always. I would say 9/10 times.

There's no one message you that's gonna make them horny lol. You gotta have a conversation with them, and get to know them a bit. Then invite them out to go do something. I never, invited a girl back to my place. We would always do something first, and then go back.

Unpopular opinion, I think sexting is a turn off for most women on the apps. UNTIl, you actually get to know them and have built up some rapport. Especially, a lot of attration and sexual tension is what's not said. Like, you're having a casual conversation but both of you want to fuck the shit out of each other. But you're still keeping things vanilla haha.

That's what I did and it nearly always worked.

Mexcol · 2024-04-06T19:59:01+00:00

Theres no magic bullet my guy, nor you would attract somebody tru some virtual letters.

Theres a reason dating apps are cutthroat and non forgiving. Since theres not much to base the attraction on, its mostly physical and looks, hence seducing with words is not really viable.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-04-07T13:34:01+00:00

One message isn't going to get you hookups, you need a good sequence of them because the girl needs to feel comfortable with you to be down to fuck you (lots of abusive/dangerous men out there). Simply finding you attractive from your profile isn't good enough.

That being said, here is how I go from match to hookup with two separate text routines:

On-app routine

Off-app routine

Don't listen to guys who say "texting is only for logistics" or "you have to take the girl out first", they just have shitty text game or don't have experience getting girls to hookup straight from texting. You can definitely build attraction via text and you can definitely get girls to come over before you've even met them. Personally, I've been with 25 women that I initially met on dating apps this year alone (2024), 8 of which were straight to my place hookups, so it's definitely possible.

toofkinbad · 2024-04-06T20:29:17+00:00

I had some success on tinder. You need good pics for that and one pic you hanging out with girls. Do like couple swipes a day from Monday to Thursday or Friday, maybe even get a boost or something but don't swipe too much just enough to show you are active on the app while girls seeing you and swiping right, then comes the day like Friday or Saturday afternoon, start swiping like mad, i used to get like 50 matches straight away, if you are swiping and not getting any more matches time to start texting, few messages in if they are responding quick enough go strait to the point of either meeting her now for drinks or her coming over to your place.

Not sure if it would work nowadays, done this like 7 years ago and if id just put the work in i could've got laid most weekends.

Also girls love cocktails and being able to make some definitely helps getting a girl back to your place, i have 3 favourites that i make, strawberry daiquiri, tequila sunrise, pina colada

Miguell7 · 2024-04-07T08:50:47+00:00

Lol. If it was that simple and easy, we wouldnt have hundreds of millions of guys struggling to get laid.

Title	Advice for hookups on dating apps
Author	I_am_Impulse
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Comments	54
Date	April 6, 2024 7:34 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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