Advice for when you are mopey/introverted

norwegiandoggo · 2024-12-30T20:08:54+00:00

It's not an important first step. Learn to accept your vibe. Approach according to your vibe. Choose a setting that matches your vibe. Choose women who match your vibe.

When you see someone who is naturally chill try to act high-energy it's almost always cringe as fuck. It's one of those things that is extremely difficult to fake convincingly

KoleSekor · 2024-12-30T20:14:38+00:00

I used to consider and label myself as quiet, introverted and socially anxious as well, but what helped me stop identifying with those things so much was remembering the fact that I'm also really into murder mysteries and investigating perplexing things... so if you are anything like me, I'd suggest you lean into your curiosity.

Be curious about people. They are likely leading an interesting life in some capacity, so find out what those interesting things about them are. That motivated me to approach and talk more and now I don't label myself with those things anymore (except introversion, I still need to recharge my energy level with alone time. I can't change that).

entitledwank · 2024-12-30T22:14:25+00:00

that depends, do you want to be a more social and extroverted person?

are you introverted by choice and what are your largest sources of dopamine. cause if you’ve always been introverted but you want to be social and your main hobbies are video games and porn then you can guess what i’m gonna say next.

but to answer your question, opposites attract so go for loud extroverted girls. She’ll be amazed at how you’re so chill

Thelondonvoyager · 2025-01-01T12:33:11+00:00

You don't have to be extroverted to approach, you can remain your calm relaxed self but you need to make the approach.

Several_Eye3898 · 2025-01-03T16:48:01+00:00

Start saying hello to everyone on the street or a shopping mall (as a practice)

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-12-30T23:21:50+00:00

Do improv classes. Seriously. It will put you out of your comfort zone and you learn to be more outgoing as a result.

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-31T07:16:14+00:00

These are all skills to be learnt. You don’t need to be extroverted to excel in social interactions. Try not to excuse yourself with introversion diagnosis and take your improvement step by step.

greeneyedguyinva · 2024-12-31T12:55:54+00:00

I'm an introvert. By nature quiet. But we all have times when we do have energy, we do act in social settings. Use those times to engage woman, talk to girls. It's easier. Then when you are low energy n feel like hiding use those times to recharge.

Good places to talk to women are at stores, grocery stores, Starbucks or Walmart while waiting inline. Simply say hi or something innocent. Go from there. Say happy new year or ask If she enjoyed her holidays. Good practice for when you go out to bars or social settings. Thing is you have to take first step and get out there. Do it when you have high energy and low pressure. Who cares if you're having a two minute conversation at Target. Fact is your out there building up your confidence.

greeneyedguyinva · 2024-12-31T12:56:08+00:00

I'm an introvert. By nature quiet. But we all have times when we do have energy, we do act in social settings. Use those times to engage woman, talk to girls. It's easier. Then when you are low energy n feel like hiding use those times to recharge.

Good places to talk to women are at stores, grocery stores, Starbucks or Walmart while waiting inline. Simply say hi or something innocent. Go from there. Say happy new year or ask If she enjoyed her holidays. Good practice for when you go out to bars or social settings. Thing is you have to take first step and get out there. Do it when you have high energy and low pressure. Who cares if you're having a two minute conversation at Target. Fact is your out there building up your confidence.

Title	Advice for when you are mopey/introverted
Author	Magic_Bathtub
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	December 30, 2024 7:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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