Beating myself up for not approaching a girl when she gave me signals to approach her.

Emotional-Rich-341 · 2025-03-16T23:45:04+00:00

Stop beating yourself up. It's not worthy

InteralFortune1 · 2025-03-17T00:25:25+00:00

Next time don’t think. 3 second rule just go

-Twyptophan- · 2025-03-16T23:51:19+00:00

By taking action the next time

random_question4123 · 2025-03-17T02:16:03+00:00

What were the signals? “Felt her being disappointed that I did”. That’s all in your head bro to make you feel worse. If it was really that obvious that she wanted to talk to you, you would have done it. Signals are usually mixed at best

Rhino3750ss · 2025-03-17T03:06:55+00:00

You don't. men are genetically programmed to punish ourselves when we don't act on an opportunity, so remember this feeling of wanting to beat yourself up because it is worse than rejection. Rejection is not guaranteed if you act. Feeling like you want to kick your own ass is guaranteed if you don't act.

LucaCoco_ · 2025-03-17T04:48:53+00:00

Go for the next one, use this frustration as motivation

Lostmypants69 · 2025-03-17T04:20:13+00:00

I assure you I fumbled worse than you last night. Don't beat yourself up

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2025-03-17T05:38:49+00:00

Lol, this happens to all of us.

Just find some new women to talk to.

VKend · 2025-03-17T06:36:53+00:00

Bro i didn't kiss her last night and I know she was ready and waiting all dolled up for me so well we all fuck up

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-17T07:30:45+00:00

You just keep going with your life and seduction quest like nothing much happened, because that’s how it is. Sometimes you are just not in the good shape, not in the mood, simply not feeling like pushing yourself. Human life is long enough and there is plenty of fish in the sea, keep improving your sexually attractive traits, seduction knowledge, expand your abundant lifestyle and you won’t have such dilemmas anymore, because opportunities will be appearing before you naturally and frequently.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-17T15:30:45+00:00

Well you’ll have about a million of these opportunities so just capitalzie on the next one. It happens all the time

RalfMurphy · 2025-03-17T19:57:23+00:00

First time, ey? You'll get used to it.

Uniflite707 · 2025-03-17T21:16:57+00:00

I’ve learned the hard way that regret hurts worse than rejection. Work on getting to the same place.

TheKanonFoder · 2025-03-17T23:03:32+00:00

That's how I do it. I don't cold approach. I just start conversations. joke with them. Tease them about something goofy. Trying to share a laugh with them. Find some playful way to interact. If they don't give me an indicator of interest then I don't pursue.

Women know within the first minute if they're going to sleep with you or not usually We can convince him sometimes. it's easier just to play lots of hands, and look for the pair aces.

MapacheD · 2025-03-17T00:57:30+00:00

I started learning about "seduction" after "waste opportunities" just to discover that signals doesn't mean anything in almost 70% of the cases.

Now when I see "signals" it's just an: "another mf with boyfriend trying to waste my time". Real signals doesn't way to nothing, she will say you Hi if you don't.

MettaKaruna100 · 2025-03-17T06:12:02+00:00

Read the book Inner Game of Tennis. It may be of great help. Also realized beating yourself up almost never helps you

Title	Beating myself up for not approaching a girl when she gave me signals to approach her.
Author	Magic_Bathtub
Upvotes	23
Comments	20
Date	March 16, 2025 11:15 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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