Hi Guys!
I'm relatively new on here, 20 y/o and have a basic knowlede of PU. I would consider my game as average, neither too good nor too bad, I have been with some girls and simply know the basics.
I would love to hear your advice on a situation with a girl at work. Some month ago I switched my department at work so I had lots of new coworkers to get to know. One was a younger woman approximately my age as I guessed back then. Since I had no wall at my place she often glanced at me when passing by and said good morning every day. One day she went to the coworker right to me and asked him whether he had a problem with a software he isn't even using. She mischanged him so obviously I didn't know what to think. Without asking questions she escaped the situation. I was too flashed to say anything tbh. But to me these were clear signs of interest. When I finally had more time after some examination I went up to her when she arrived in the bus in the morning getting to know her name, age (22, so a bit older than me) and what she is doing. I also asked do meet up and drink come coffee. One week later we had breakfast together and after that we had coffee 2 times. We don't text much on the intern chat at the workplace, only to meet up. Last week I asked for breakfast (I'm generally the one asking, but she is always in, which is good, isn't it?) which we had agreed on another time and gave her my nr for whatsapp (I know this isnt't the best move but I was in a hurry and we couldnt communicate another way) but she didnt reply until now (4 work days). Actually the dates at work were not the greatest just I guess because we both are a bit reserved. No body contact at all. I also asked if she would be down for some drinks after work / in the evening, she said she is but this could be just because she is polite (she said she had to look up her calendar, but doesnt come back to it, flake?).
How would you guys act, go for it another time? No interest anymore? The point is that I will only see her for 2 more days at work... the rest of the year I will be somewhere else but sometimes around the area (is this her problem?) Is she flaking? Did I misinterpret her behaviour and was she just open minded?
Please help me! Some advice from more experienced guys would be really helpful!
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