Advice

DaygameCode · 2024-06-09T23:57:38+00:00

If you see a woman that you like, you simply walk up to her and approach her within 3 seconds of seeing her. You don’t look for signals.

You don’t try to look for eye contacts. You simply walk up to her, tell her that you want to meet her because you like her style or whatever you like about her and proceed to get to know her.

It’s very likely that the frequent eye contacts with no action either made her feel like you are a pussy who doesn’t have what it takes to be a man or worst that you are a weirdo up to something which creeps her out.

You cannot afford to be shy with women. You cannot afford to hesitate your approaches. You cannot afford to wait for clear signals that she wants you to approach her. That’s not simply how you should behave around women. That will always do more harm than good.

If you are a girl, don’t look for signals and just approach her. Stop trying to read her mind. Stop second guessing yourself. Stop the mental masturbation analysing how many eye contacts she gave you on a certain day and whether the odds are in your favour based on what she does around you.

Be a man and approach without signals. Approach blindly. Simple as that. That’s the only acceptable way to deal with women. Approach and don’t give a fuck about the outcome.

Dandys3107 · 2024-06-10T08:18:30+00:00

If you keep ignoring her, it is natural for her to assume you are either not interested or not confident to make something out of it. Either way, she may get little annoyed or offended with such behaviour, so now she don't want to interact with you. If you really want something to happen you need to prove her wrong now. Or she will find someone else to open towards.

Tatleman68 · 2024-06-09T21:14:58+00:00

Just a "hi" or more?

EddyStarkFit · 2024-06-09T23:18:15+00:00

She might feel rejected or might have gotten anxious as you didn't make the first move in person when intentions were clear, she might have started a relationship..

Either ignore and practice conversation with intent in other situations to build up tolerance for the next opportunities... ...or, (this is the right thing to do), go say hi in person, say that you noticed her and wanted to know *something specific about her interests based on her posts*, meet somewhere or just compliment. Even if she feels off it will reassure you were interested (she has value) and if nothing else it will be endearing and courageous of you to care and expose yourself. It's quite ok to come off like that at first.

Title	Advice
Author	Fine_Low_5495
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	June 9, 2024 8:29 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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