Advice

norwegiandoggo · 2025-02-02T16:43:53+00:00

Be okay with her losing attraction..

Your goal is not to get her attracted to you. Your goal is to make a move!

You have to take it step by step. Your first goal is to just shoot your shot more often!! That involves getting rejected more too. That's part of the deal. Be cool with it.

You also seem to be talking about one specific woman since you say "her". You're worried about one specific woman? You should focus on women, not a single woman - unless that woman is your girlfriend.

Do you think you can learn anything if you hit on one woman? You have to hit on 100s! Stop focusing on one woman and begin focusing on building your seduction skills so you can have to success with women in general.

There's a reason it's forbidden to ask about specific situations here. Because we're focused on learning seduction skills. It's not a "one shot one kill" type of thing.

shathecomedian · 2025-02-02T16:44:22+00:00

could you be a little more specific, is this like a friend youre talking about?

DaygameCode · 2025-02-02T16:46:03+00:00

You need to make peace with the fact that you will lose many girls throughout your life and that’s normal and ok. It means they are not the right person for you.

Choose to let go of those who are willing to walk away from you. Have a take it or leave it type of attitude and opt to behave from an abundance mindset rather than scarcity mindset.

Recognize that losing someone’s interest isn’t something to avoid, but something to look forward to in order to avoid wasting time on those who are not as enthusiastic as you.

Because the worst thing you can do is wasting time and more time in someone who is just leading you on. A time you could have used to hit on more girls who would have been better for you.

Title	Advice
Author	Nice_Board8665
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	February 2, 2025 4:38 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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